Hi I have had a scan on Wednesday 21st and told I am ‘under 6 weeks pregnant’ but they couldn’t be…
Hi I have had a scan on Wednesday 21st and told I am ‘under 6 weeks pregnant’ but they couldn’t be anymore exact. When I held my breath on the internal ultrasound-there was a little heart beat. I only stopped taking the pill 2 months ago and although I had a light bleed (spotting) 12.1.18 ish, it was not heavy like a normal period. My concern is I was with one partner on the 11.1.18 and another on the 25.1.18 (2nd guy ever since)- which is more likely the dad? Not sure if this info helps but on the 6.2.18, the preg test was negative (a cheap test though) but the 8.2.18 it was positive please help I’m so worried
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@mrsmowmow, that would be the best news! Do you think the scan saying under 6 weeks for me would be accurate enough? Xx
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So if you had a positive on the 29th jan-my test would have been positive on the 6th even if it’s a cheap one wouldn’t it. Thank you!!! I’m 2 weeks behind you! Xx
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My friend was in the same situation this time last year with almost the same dates, she had a DNA test when the baby was born and it was the first partner xx
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@melanie-spiritmedium, really? I’m just confused because partner number 1- even if the sperm lived for the 5 day max...I would be 8 weeks now wouldn’t I? And if the baby is only 2.1mm isn’t that too small? Xx
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@cls86, Yeah you would be about 8 weeks hun but the scan doesn’t include the first 2 weeks, they will give you a dating scan around 12 weeks to be sure. They told me I was 8 weeks and when I went for a dating scan 3 weeks later I was only 8 weeks at that scan lol xx
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I thought the date they give you at scans include the 2 phantom weeks? This is why I’m so confused. Xx
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@cls86, it’s daft isn’t it hun when I had my first baby the dates on scans etc were so straightforward, this time around they’ve given me 4 different due dates 😩 x
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@melanie-spiritmedium, what dates have they given you? Are they far apart? Xx
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@cls86, yes hun they gave me 16th then 28th of May then 5th of June and now 28th of June 😩ridiculous really x
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That’s insane! How can it vary by nearly a month? Did you have an early dating scan or just the 12 week? X
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@cls86, I had a few scans at the beginning because I was bleeding and in pain they thought it was ectopic and then they said I was 8 weeks. 3 weeks later I had another scan and I was only 8 weeks then lol! I was over 12 weeks at my actual dating scan. My head was up the wall for the first 3 months I had no idea what to believe xx
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I’ve been given that many dates I literally lost about 6 weeks because I was believing I was further, now it feels like I’ve been pregnant forever 😩But my dates haven’t changed after my dating scan which was 10 weeks ago so that’s the one they’ll give you your due date and you’ll hopefully be able to figure it out. Many women have been in your situation I hope it works out the best way for you xx
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I had the same thing, that’s why I had the scan, it turned out to be cysts. She said that if I was past 6 weeks, we would have seen something on the ultrasound but we could only see the sac. We only saw the baby on the internal scan. This is why I’m pinning all my hopes on guy 2! Gonna book a private scan I think then I’ll have 2 opinions xxx