Just talk to my boyfriend about how he felt about the pregnancy... he doesn’t think he’s qualified he said.... looks like I’m doing this alone again.....
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@bearaboo4 I hope that talking it out even if it needs to be written on paper to get the thoughts together first helps. I think it will. When you write it out its harder to say things you don't necessarily mean like the unqualified comment. We now know thats not what he meant but thats the word that popped into his head. Wishing you and your growing family the best of luck ♥️. Keep the stress low so you both can have a lovely new addition.
@muva.tings2018, thank you so much I will try everything you just said. You have been so helpful!
@bearaboo4 so I really need you to sit with him and say just that. Let him know he is not alone. Like you said even when its planned perfectly every parent is scared shitless that is the point of becoming a parent. He's helped with the first child but, this one makes it real. This is a life that is a piece of him coming into the world. Tell him instead of putting up a wall to share those fears. My doctor said if you can't talk you should both write the fears in a book and discuss them from there.
@coffee_is_the_new_black, yeah he told me he was scared and yeah that is true! I’m going to have a second baby and I’m so scared but he doesn’t know that.
@muva.tings2018, he said he just scared but I am two even know it’s my second baby I’m still scared no one ready to have a baby even if they are planned
@muva.tings2018, he wasn’t even home haha but he came home and he said he was sorry and that he’s not running that he wants to be here for our baby
I’m sorry love, maybe he’s scared? But that’s no excuse. Imagine what women have to go through you don’t think we’re scared, but we have to suck it up. So now so does he.
@bearaboo4 he better bring his ass home, he can't just hide with mama and she shouldn't let him. She should really say something to him.
@bearaboo4 lmaooooo 😂 please knock some sense into him. If he's already been there for your first child what makes him so unqualified. Is he scared of money problems? Sit down and have a talk with him face to face. When you look at him you'll see the bullshit easier and be able to pull out the truth because that qualified shit was bullshit.
@muva.tings2018, he’s at his moms getting his tires but I bet he won’t even come home
@bearaboo4 I'm sorry you are dealing with this. I saw where you've had a miscarriage before. Please don't let his stupidity stress you too much. Is there anyone who can knock some sense into him?
@muva.tings2018, I know right I hung up on him after he said that and we live together
What does he think qualifies someone as a father? All he needs to be is mature, helpful and lend a hand. I understand being scared but using that as an excuse is ridiculous. He was qualified for the sex that led to the baby.
*HUGS* I’m sorry. Hopefully you have family and friends for support.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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