I have a question...have any moms felt distant from their SO right after their baby was born...?

Im kinda feeling that way with my husband. I had a rough labor , went med free... He hasnt kissed me or hugged me or said he was proud or anything so im feeling a little distant yes

@kandbh922 same...he seems to not be telling me how he feels or something...idk what it is...idk how to change it...

@babymomma2018 yes maam i feel you

I did . 100%

@mrsmord Did it change??

@babymomma2018, yes of course . Having a baby is a big change in ANYONES life . And it causes a drift because we’re all getting used to this new baby and new schedule and new life . It takes alittle bit of time but we’re also super emotional after having a baby so everything is much worse then it seems , it gets better once everything goes back to normal and we get back to ourselves

@mrsmord thank you...i have been crazy emotional bc of my baby being in an incubator and it breaks my heart but I was just worried that it was something more permanent...

@babymomma2018, hopefully it isn’t , but it’s normal to feel this way , specially if your baby is in distress and your both worried . It either makes people closer or further apart but once things start to get back to it’s normal routine, so does your relationship