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Rachel Adams
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Met with my sons dad today to discuss him wanting to take my son for a week after I have my daughter which I told him I…

Met with my sons dad today to discuss him wanting to take my son for a week after I have my daughter which I told him I was not comfortable with because he lies to me and insists on keeping important information about my son from me. Well it went about as well as I expected. I finally told him I have full custody of our son and need to know this information. I also told him I am not comfortable because he lies to me. He tried to make excuses to justify himself and got mad at me and kept telling me I was dumb and stupid. 😒 I so wish he would grow up. I was there to try to come up with a compromise but he just kept getting angrier making the situation a hostile one where I did not feel safe. I am proud of myself for not losing my cool. I have finally learned he will never change.

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leroydoom

Sharmane TrejoМама двоих (4 года, 5 лет)

@raycharles1230 Its empowering to be the one with the cool head because you can look at the situation more rationally while the other party has diarrhea of the mouth and resorts to name calling, and yelling, really shows what kind of person they are. Good on you for stepping back and doing what's right for your children while also being the bigger, better person. I'm sorry your having to go through this x

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zackemilymcguire

EmilyМама сына-младенца

Proud of you for being strong. Good job. Let the Child be a child, while you are a strong Mommy!! Who needs those child adults anyway!

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