Hi ladies, how did the labour start for you? And how was it the second time in comparison to the first (those that had a…

Hi ladies, how did the labour start for you? And how was it the second time in comparison to the first (those that had a second one already)?

I've had a sweep last time, had some brown discharge and mild contractions after, then it died completely by the evening and started again at 3am. I gave birth at 40 weeks and 5 days. Just wondering what it will be like this time... Can't wait to meet my son, but dreading labour and the adjustment period, and my daughter's jealousy :( not sure if I want to get it over and done with or stay pregnant for as long as possible lol :) really craving a pineapple too...