I don't get him talks about more kids but the tells everyone around him he doesn't want me is unhappy, can't trust me. I don't get it. But was nice to me this morning and last night. I've gave him more chances then anyone would give but I haven't said anything about that. I need some mom advise please. I can't tell if this is a good or bad thing from a man.
@donnydayb well, just hope he's not following in his dad's footsteps
@hippie_momma_bb thanks girly now I just need to talk to him to see what he thinks that he isn't saying cause I can't do the every day different person
@boymamachronicles no it don't sound harsh but I would hope he wouldn't cause that is what his dad does to woman and I don't want to be that woman.
@donnydayb idk, sounds like he's using you for some thing. keeping you around for something. sorry if I sound harsh. 😩
@donnydayb yeah that's shitty. I would suggest you go home. Get a job so if he leaves you're not stressed trying to figure out how to make ends meet.
@hippie_momma_bb it's his friend that he has a crush on but since she knows him I said what else he says. Seems like she is lying for and with him.
@donnydayb that's a personal decision you need to make with him. Also what kinda friend is it that keeps letting you know what he's supposedly saying?
@hippie_momma_bb @boymamachronicles see that's what I thought but I can't say anything cause it just makes it worse. We talked and everything was good after but once he texted his ( friend) he was tell her different and then was be loving. I love him and I've been a lot for him and so has he but if him doing this job is what is making him act like this maybe I should go home and get a job and let him travel with out us.
It's bad hun. Just by telling other people your relationship is bad is a cross on the trust line and just because he's admitting he wants more children doesn't necessarily mean he only wants them with you.
it's bad. I don't see why a man would want other people to know his relationship was bad and he didn't want his woman but come home acting nice and sweet, it's normally the other way around 🤔
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Everyone keeps telling me not to go into labor looking a hot mess hair not done blah blah blah little do they know I can't afford it!!! I can't afford to get it done and I don't know what to do with it Shut up and leave me alone basically telling me I look a hot mess which i really don't care about my daughter and boyfriend will love me either way
i'm getting my baby circumcised tomorrow & it makes me so sad. i want to do it but i don't want to see him hurting :( makes me cry every time i think about it
I can't stand when someone tells me my children don't need expensive things. Your right they don't but they will get expensive things as long as we can afford them. A random friend came at me cause we were speaking about my new baby and I was telling her about the stroller I'll be getting and she wanna get salty and say no child needs an expensive ass stroller . Girl bye lmao the stroller isn't even that expensive.
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
@boymamachronicles I am hoping to any God, thing,everything and above.