Is it wrong for me to call it quits in my marriage after 7months...? I’m tired of being the provider all the time. (Grocery shopping, bill/rent paying, purchasing furniture for house & kiddos, buying clothes for the kiddos, and asking my own dad/mom for a little help since I’ve been back to work almost a month now). I’ve got to repay them $530 back for helping with my security deposit, phone bill and youngest diapers...plus I’ve got the kids daycare since dhs just hit me with $284 for their copayment & I just came back to work talking about they won’t have one until April but next month I have to come up with $284 plus rent $625 for the first. He’s no help with the kids. I can’t leave him there alone with out something happen like the other night my 2 month old got hit smack in the face with a charger and had a cut on his forehead why’ll his dad talking about he had a headache laying in bed downstairs and youngest was in living room with middle child. I swear I’m raising in extra child. Any advice ladies...?🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️
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@mrs.dreaya kick his ass out his a dead beat living off of you it aint worth it call the cops to get his ass out
@mrs.dreaya, Oh then hell yeah he wouldn’t have gotten a 2nd chance
He wasn’t but since I’ve been the main one bring in he’s been bitter and looses his job every time around this time.
@sunkissedsweetheart, he’s done cheated 4 times and busted my lip and bruised my arms & neck already.
I believe marriage is very serious. If he was like that then y’all shouldn’t have gotten married. I say keep trying. I mean he’s not cheating on u he’s not abusing you. What he’s doing can be fixed
Kick his ass to the curb, if he won't leave, then get your kids and go stay with some family or something until you can figure stuff out.... There's no reason to put up with that shit....
@mrs.dreaya Why Do You Pay For Childcare When His Ass Is Home?
If it ends in violence press charges. And if the door is locked how is he getting in lol i wouldn’t give him a choice. I’d get a restraining order if i had to. Especially if he is violent
@braindeadmama, I’ve done that too...just ends with violence and him taking off with our middle child in the cold for hours. Police said they can’t do nothing about it.
Nah girl. Pack his shit up, change the locks, and leave it outside. We don’t fuck with little boys in a grown mans body 🤦♀️ I’d be saying to him those checks are yours too. Fuck that noise
@braindeadmama, I’ve told him to leave multiple time but he simply refuses. I contacted the landlord who ask why he just don’t leave because my lease is not up until September of this year. Now he talking about he’ll leave next month after he gets his two checks🤦🏽♀️😩
Don’t give him an option. Tell him to nut up or gtfo.
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How much does your bills/rent/mortgage add up per month?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Just got my one month old to pee AND poop in the potty ☺️ #godiaperfree
Help!!!
My lease is up 12/23 and I want to move . For some reason I thought I had to give 30 day notice, no it’s 60 days . My fault for not double checking. My rent would be 1410 per the contract does the math add up to 1692 month to month? It says 120% of rent . The office isn’t answering my calls or emails once I said I want to give my 60 days as of 11/12. Sorry if it’s too small
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
My marriage lasted 8 months but my ex had A LOT of issues which is why it was so short. I have no regrets about our divorce