I have come to the conclusion, that I'm a shit mom. Lol.
Why?? Because after weeks, of asking my 3 year old not to come into the kitchen while I was cooking, he did. I turned around for a sec, and next thing I know he's running off screaming his head off, holding his fingers....
What happened??? He touched the stove. I burnt dinner taking care of it... Lovely... It blistered pretty quick too... And he has to go visit his sperm donor tomorrow... Fuck my life. Here comes C.P.S. 😒😒
@leroydoom I mean, its what narcissists/abusers do right?? Lol.
@singlemommy15 All kids are different, some are just clumsier then others, or just don't pay attention. I got lucky with my son because he's usually pretty careful and he has pretty good balance.
Sorry your under that kind of stress :/
@leroydoom they've both had black eyes, rib brusies, arm bruises, butt bruises, (FROM FALLING!) I don't hit them. Have to clarify that sometimes.
Then if you have more than one kid, they could be rough housing and get bruised up. Kids are like apples lol
Im sure CPS workers are trained on normal vs abnormal bruises, like bruises on knees vs bruises on the ribcage. Mine has bruises from falls but you can tell that from the location.
@leroydoom that's my 3 year old. 😂😂 he has to experience it, to learn...
@singlemommy15 sometimes against our better judgement they decide to learn the hard way lol
@leroydoom omg. My kids are riddled with bruises... I have no idea how..
She was like, "Okay, he's got a bed to sleep in, food to eat, running water, obvious electricity." It just so happened to be right after a bath so he was in just a pull up so she could see he was healthy and didn't have unexplainable bruises or anything.
@leroydoom he will not stop tho... That's the only bad thing...
@singlemommy15 I've had CPS called on me once, the home check took all of 45seconds, what took the longest was giving her all my info and my husboy's info.
@leroydoom omg they do. I'm glad it was just his finger, but at the same point, maybe listen once?!? Lol!!! 😂😂 mom knows what hurts.. And getting burned is pretty fricken bad!!
We were getting ready to put the Turkey in after the oven preheated when my friends toddler knocked a coffee cup full of Luke warm coffee all over herself and the floor, while we were scrambling to clean up the mess (it was a damn near full cup) we left the oven door open and my son who was 1 at the time toodled over there and stuck both hands on the inside of the door like he was going to climb in. I felt terrible. Accidents happen. Often so quickly.
@snowqirl me too.... I really don't need C.P.S. at my door...
Please do not think that way. That kind of thinks happens to kids sometime. As long as it is not life threaten , it is okey. I have 10 months baby and she is everywhere, hitting, falling down, crying. I hope he gets well pretty soon.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
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Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
@leroydoom lol