Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want anything out of it anyway and he keeps picking her up and taking her to the toy box no matter how many times I tell her no and tell him she doesn’t even want anything out of there anyway. At first I told him “only let her get one toy” so she picks one up and he is still holding her over the toy box then tries to put her over the baby gate so she can grab more. I’m sorry but you aren’t the one that has to pick up all these toys. You aren’t the one who has to put them back. He never picks up toys. Everyone wants to get the toys out for her out no one ever wants to help me pick them back up. The fact that I said not to let her get anything out of the box more than 5 times really pisses me off. You may be her grandparent but you aren’t her parent. So now I have mass toys to pic up on top of the toys she already had out from this morning
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
Ken'usha·
@_naturalnurtuter_ Okay its good that y'all are there right now and I know how that is
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@jerryjrmommy, right now my kids and I are at my cousins off campus apartment but with her roommates and her building being strict we can’t be here long
Ken'usha·
@_naturalnurtuter_ oh there has to be something 🤔😞
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@jerryjrmommy, i don’t think they allow that
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@kiaraherbert24, no we’re not and I just left my moms house in Maryland last week to move back to Georgia to start a new job
Ken'usha·
@_naturalnurtuter_ okay and I didn't know they had waiting lists 🤦🏽 hotel lobbies ?
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@jerryjrmommy, idk about hospitals but i know several shelters are on a 6-12 month waiting list
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@kiaraherbert24, not really that’s what’s just driving me insane. I have no one. And where we are it’s like a dorm and my cousin can’t have us here. So I just keep crying praying to God something good happens for me and my babies
Ken'usha·
@_naturalnurtuter_ 😞😞😞they really don't and its too cold do you think you can sleep in the hospital waiting room are a near by shelter for only mom and kid like is any of that around
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@tymirsmommy24, girl Exactly. I’ve had people down on their luck stay with me and my baby father would never try no ish like that. All he was say is how long she staying and I don’t want her here. Even at that I’m like sorry sir you don’t pay bills in my house and she needs a place to stay I’m helping her. I would NEVER use someone’s situation against them
Tera·
Мама сына (1 год)
@_naturalnurtuter_, that’s because she don’t have respect for her self she can’t respect you if she don’t even love her own self it could of been me cause I would of broke up with his ass and told him to keep it pushing you would never come in my house trying to shake shit then tell my friend her and her kids go to go know they don’t have no where to go fuck out her. I would of told him if I was her we don’t do bums over this way keep it moving
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@jerryjrmommy, exactly it’s just frustrating because my babies have to get woken up midnight and sit outside with all our stuff to see if we can crash somewhere until I can figure this out. My kids don’t deserve this
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@chasha2017, that’s what I was thinking myself after everything I feel like she planned this all along
Sha·
That's crazy! But as I was reading ur post, I couldn't help but think maybe that shit was planned all along.
Ken'usha·
@_naturalnurtuter_ yeah and it sounds like she planned that to happen🤔😒 like how could you
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@caydensmommy26, we’re okay for now
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@jerryjrmommy, thank you. I know I did. He could have touched my daughter or raped me so I’m thankful we got out of there
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@kiaraherbert24, I just don’t know where to go from here. I got three job offers and they’re really good jobs and I’m just tired of always having to look for shelter
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@kiaraherbert24, she never was. Apart of me feels she probably had this planned from the beginning she was too comfortable with his terms.
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@tymirsmommy24, I was just like how are you even okay with your man sleeping with another woman in your house. Like they’re some sickening people
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@kiaraherbert24, I was just shocked disgusted and she just sat there and did nothing
Omai Ojobi ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
@chanelle, we’re okay for now. I just don’t know where we’re going to be next week or the week after
Tera·
Мама сына (1 год)
You did the right thing your and your baby’s come first that man was disgusting and that girl wasn’t your friend but you know really know person till you live with them and she show her true colors just imagine what man is doing to her she’ll learn in the long run that she looks a good from for a peace of trash bum
Ken'usha·
🤦🏽😒you definitely did the right thing by getting out he's a pig I'm sorry this has happened to you and your kids I wished I lived closer i hope you all are safe now
Chanelle Guiot·
Мама дочки-младенца
Wish we was closer I’d be there for you ❤️ are you okay are y’all safe and warm?
Deleted·
That is nuts
butterflyMom3·
wow i'm sorry you had to experience that 😟
and he is a damn creep 🤬
Kea·
You did the right thing just pray and ask God to help you and protect you but never get to comfortable in someone else home cuz they can easily put u out especially a “friend” over a nicaah who don’t even care about her cuz if he did den he wouldn’t have asked u for no sex that’s disrespectful towards you and her @_naturalnurtuter_