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Omai Ojobi
Omai Ojobi
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

I met a mom on here we became friends, very close. She offered me her place when I didn’t have anywhere to go I thought she was very nice. I moved in her kids and my kids clicked. Then one day she decides that her make best friend might be the father of her son. Tells him his the father. He approaches me one day and tells me “well since I’m the father of her kid I’m now the man of this house and whatever arrangement you and her had is out of the window. In order for you and your kids to continue to stay here you have to have sex with me whenever I want it. If not you have to go.” I looked at him explained how uncomfortable and unfair that was and how evil he was. He continues to say “well these are the conditions either you except or leave. I packed up my stuff me and my kids and left. I haven’t stopped crying since. I was willing to pay rent and put food in the house and they just threw me and my kids out middle of the night because I refused to devalue myself. I’m sooo sorry to my babies because they don’t deserve this at all.

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jerryjrmommy

Ken'ushaМама сына (2 года)

@_naturalnurtuter_ Okay its good that y'all are there right now and I know how that is

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@jerryjrmommy, right now my kids and I are at my cousins off campus apartment but with her roommates and her building being strict we can’t be here long

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jerryjrmommy

Ken'ushaМама сына (2 года)

@_naturalnurtuter_ oh there has to be something 🤔😞

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@jerryjrmommy, i don’t think they allow that

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@kiaraherbert24, no we’re not and I just left my moms house in Maryland last week to move back to Georgia to start a new job

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jerryjrmommy

Ken'ushaМама сына (2 года)

@_naturalnurtuter_ okay and I didn't know they had waiting lists 🤦🏽 hotel lobbies ?

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@jerryjrmommy, idk about hospitals but i know several shelters are on a 6-12 month waiting list

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@kiaraherbert24, not really that’s what’s just driving me insane. I have no one. And where we are it’s like a dorm and my cousin can’t have us here. So I just keep crying praying to God something good happens for me and my babies

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jerryjrmommy

Ken'ushaМама сына (2 года)

@_naturalnurtuter_ 😞😞😞they really don't and its too cold do you think you can sleep in the hospital waiting room are a near by shelter for only mom and kid like is any of that around

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@tymirsmommy24, girl Exactly. I’ve had people down on their luck stay with me and my baby father would never try no ish like that. All he was say is how long she staying and I don’t want her here. Even at that I’m like sorry sir you don’t pay bills in my house and she needs a place to stay I’m helping her. I would NEVER use someone’s situation against them

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tymirsmommy24

TeraМама сына (1 год)

@_naturalnurtuter_, that’s because she don’t have respect for her self she can’t respect you if she don’t even love her own self it could of been me cause I would of broke up with his ass and told him to keep it pushing you would never come in my house trying to shake shit then tell my friend her and her kids go to go know they don’t have no where to go fuck out her. I would of told him if I was her we don’t do bums over this way keep it moving

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@jerryjrmommy, exactly it’s just frustrating because my babies have to get woken up midnight and sit outside with all our stuff to see if we can crash somewhere until I can figure this out. My kids don’t deserve this

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@chasha2017, that’s what I was thinking myself after everything I feel like she planned this all along

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mommy.poppins

ShaМама сына (1 год)

That's crazy! But as I was reading ur post, I couldn't help but think maybe that shit was planned all along.

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jerryjrmommy

Ken'ushaМама сына (2 года)

@_naturalnurtuter_ yeah and it sounds like she planned that to happen🤔😒 like how could you

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@caydensmommy26, we’re okay for now

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@jerryjrmommy, thank you. I know I did. He could have touched my daughter or raped me so I’m thankful we got out of there

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@kiaraherbert24, I just don’t know where to go from here. I got three job offers and they’re really good jobs and I’m just tired of always having to look for shelter

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@kiaraherbert24, she never was. Apart of me feels she probably had this planned from the beginning she was too comfortable with his terms.

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@tymirsmommy24, I was just like how are you even okay with your man sleeping with another woman in your house. Like they’re some sickening people

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@kiaraherbert24, I was just shocked disgusted and she just sat there and did nothing

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_naturalnurtuter_

Omai Ojobi Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@chanelle, we’re okay for now. I just don’t know where we’re going to be next week or the week after

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tymirsmommy24

TeraМама сына (1 год)

You did the right thing your and your baby’s come first that man was disgusting and that girl wasn’t your friend but you know really know person till you live with them and she show her true colors just imagine what man is doing to her she’ll learn in the long run that she looks a good from for a peace of trash bum

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jerryjrmommy

Ken'ushaМама сына (2 года)

🤦🏽😒you definitely did the right thing by getting out he's a pig I'm sorry this has happened to you and your kids I wished I lived closer i hope you all are safe now

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chanelle

Chanelle GuiotМама дочки-младенца

Wish we was closer I’d be there for you ❤️ are you okay are y’all safe and warm?

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del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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That is nuts

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butterflymom3

butterflyMom3Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

wow i'm sorry you had to experience that 😟

and he is a damn creep 🤬

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cartermom.layamom

KeaМногодетная мама (5 детей)

You did the right thing just pray and ask God to help you and protect you but never get to comfortable in someone else home cuz they can easily put u out especially a “friend” over a nicaah who don’t even care about her cuz if he did den he wouldn’t have asked u for no sex that’s disrespectful towards you and her @_naturalnurtuter_

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