Serious question!!? What's your reaction if your spouse/partner tells you to get you tubes tied because they don't want…

Ladies that's exactly what i said... I was dosing off and he woke me up to tell me to get my tubes tied cause he don't want nomore kids I was like nigga you get your tubes tied you da one that don't want nomore kids I was kinda mad because he messed up my dream about chicken wings lol talking about some got damn tubes tied. I'm starting to hate men more and more they so miserable and they a always wanna take it out on us shit is sad smh I'm da one pregnant and he have more moods then me like I fucked up his life stop fucking you won't have this problem

I'd tell him to get his balls tied if he's done.

@kimny, no way!! LOL!

Your poor friend!!

@memybumpandi I dropped him off went to get breakfast (to go) with my oldest and by the time we got back to the office he was joking with the urologist talking about politics. Where as my friend had her tubes cauterized during her 2nd c-sections and said the recovery was worst than the first c-section. She said she had a horrible burning sensation for months.

@kimny, is that all?? Hmm good to know LOL!

A vasectomy takes 20minutes with only a few days recovery time not to mention if he's the one who doesn't want more kids then he should get it. I always think of that Neyo & Monyetta (sp) situation when I think about this topic. My husband didn't want anymore kids after this baby so he went and got a vasectomy in my last trimester.

Never !! Then get your thing fixed !! I’ll be damned if I do that for a man & we split up & I find someone who wants a kid with me & it can’t happen so no 😂

I'm getting my tubes tied asap after this baby comes. I'll be 51 when he's 18 and I wouldn't want anymore after I'm 35 which means I'd have to get pregnant again within the next year... No thank you! I'm happy with what fate has given me and already have my hands full with two under 3 years old come May!🙈

@tiff.momma.love, 🤣🤣🤣 I don’t know whats mote funny, stop fucking or the chicken wing dream!!

@tiff.momma.love LMFAO those poor chicken wings. I'd definitely be mad if my guy wakes me up talking about some mess, he would be making those wings no matter the time. Lol. If he doesn't want them then he should definitely be the one doing something to ensure that.

Ladies that's exactly what i said... I was dosing off and he woke me up to tell me to get my tubes tied cause he don't want nomore kids I was like nigga you get your tubes tied you da one that don't want nomore kids I was kinda mad because he messed up my dream about chicken wings lol talking about some got damn tubes tied. I'm starting to hate men more and more they so miserable and they a always wanna take it out on us shit is sad smh I'm da one pregnant and he have more moods then me like I fucked up his life stop fucking you won't have this problem

@goodjourney I agree. Conversation and a random off the wall comment would be two different things.

I wouldn't feel a way if that was a convo yall had. Like me and my hubby started the convo like do you want more kids after this etc....but for him to say it like that Yea ummmm no

I'd tell him if that's true then he would get a vasectomy instead. Just about what most ladies said I'm sure.

Lol, I agree with all these ladies. I made my comment before I went through and read everyone else's. You ladies are awesome!!! 💪

I tell him he can go chop his balls off. I've had to go through menstrual cycles ovulation pain pregnancy labor C-section and then right back to painful periods and ovulation. I've been through enough if he doesn't want anymore kids he can go get snipped.

I'd tell him to get his balls tied if he's done.

@bamber, hahahahaha exactly!!!

I will be like😂😂👀😒nawl son you better get cut are take those male birth control pills they got out now I'm leaving how I came in "a whole" you got me f---ed up (this is actually what I told him when he said something about that kinda mess)

Exactly what @bamber said.

I've already been through enough having his kids, he can make a sacrifice for once. 🙄

I don’t think I could do it, he could have a vasectomy! I’d be happy with that!

@bamber exactly 😂

I'm a lil smart ass so I'd tell him to get snipped if he doesn't want any more. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Ugh idk depends on how many children I had already tbh ... and depends how he said it