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Brianna Hill
briannahill1293
Brianna Hill·Мама сына (7 лет)
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WHAT DO YALL THINK?
17.02.2018
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@briannahill1293 yeah, I was rocking the solo Parenthood with my now 3 y/o daughter and because I got out of the domestic violence situation with her father, he got pissed, retaliated and is currently fighting me in court for 50% custody but has never paid anything financially. It's never been a good situation, but I'm going through the motions.
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cantdeletebutimgone
·Мама дочки (11 лет)
@me.mykids.and.i eww, sorry you have to go through that.
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mamix5
CT❤·Многодетная мама (6 детей)
@briannahill1293 yesss! This female even egged our cars a few months ago. She is petty and childish affff.
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cantdeletebutimgone
·Мама дочки (11 лет)
@briannahill1293 no, you of course know your situation better than anybody. And if he's the kind of person that flip-flops between being a decent person and a POS you have every right to secure the fact that you are going to get financial help form the person who helped you create this other person
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briannahill1293
Brianna Hill·Мама сына (7 лет)
@noturprops, even if I was a billionaire! I don’t think it’s right that the responsibility of taking care of a child/children is on one parent. That’s bullshit. Forget money, what about time to yourself. I shouldn’t have to ask anyone else but my child’s son to watch the baby for a few so I can idk get my nails done. Why? Because they didn’t make the baby with me! He did!!!
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mamix5
CT❤·Многодетная мама (6 детей)
@mommiesaremagical14 I agree. And the thing that upsets me about it was she didn't do it until she found out I was pregnant. I mean his ass has even given her money for her personal use because she asked.
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briannahill1293
Brianna Hill·Мама сына (7 лет)
@mommiesaremagical14, yup my situation is somewhat similar. My sons father has a Jekyll and Hyde personality and tbh I don’t trust him alone with the baby. I let him know this, however I made sure to to him he’s more then welcome to see him. I’ll meet up with you whatever it’s fine. But because he can’t take him to his home and be alone with him he doesn’t want to be apart of his life entirely. I could understand that. He probably feels like his son is more so like another bill he has to pay rather then his child. But you put yourself in this situation, you’re not gonna threaten to kill me or hurt me and my son or tell me your gonna take him away for good then expect me not to act in this manner! Do you think I’m wrong for trying to put him on child support?
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Can I just point out that the post starts out with " if I ever have kids." Let her be in that situation and see what she has to say then. Mother's and Father's can both run from responsibilities but I think there's nothing wrong with child support. I don't get child support myself but it would be nice.
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cantdeletebutimgone
·Мама дочки (11 лет)
@me.mykids.and.i that pisses me off. If a father is willing to take responsibility and not only is he giving her certain amount of money a month but also pitching in throughout the month if it's needed then there's no reason for it to have to go through the courts. Also at the same time on her side I don't think there's anything wrong with getting child support just to secure the fact that you will be getting help just in case he decides to out of spite on his side stop helping you out financially which he can do if it's not court-ordered. I'm not saying that your husband would do that I'm just saying in general.
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briannahill1293
Brianna Hill·Мама сына (7 лет)
@me.mykids.and.i, well that’s a different scenario. Sounds like she’s was just being unnecessarily petty! Probably jealous or something
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cantdeletebutimgone
·Мама дочки (11 лет)
@briannahill1293 I don't mess around, of course if he wants to be involved with the child then he won't have to pay child support because if he's involved with the child and takes the child during weekends or whenever. He can buy what he needs for the child at his home. So if we could separately provide for our child then there's no need for child support. But if he refuses to pay child support but wants to be involved with the child then he's going to have to think again. And if he wants absolutely nothing to do with the child I see nothing wrong with getting child support anyway or not getting child support.
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mamix5
CT❤·Многодетная мама (6 детей)
My husband is on child support because him and his kid's mom didn't work out. But he always made sure they had everything they needed and if she needed money he would give it, and she did child support out of spite.
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mamix5
CT❤·Многодетная мама (6 детей)
Personally, in some cases I somewhat agree with this.
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briannahill1293
Brianna Hill·Мама сына (7 лет)
@shellbell0391, exactly!!! I didn’t make this child alone so why am I only left with the responsibility of caring for them. That’s messed up
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briannahill1293
Brianna Hill·Мама сына (7 лет)
@mommiesaremagical14, I agree with you!
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cantdeletebutimgone
·Мама дочки (11 лет)
She's very much wrong in many ways. Men don't leave women after they get pregnant because they don't want to deal with the woman they leave because they don't want the responsibility of a child. They could be with you for 2 years or 7 years and you've been the same person and then as soon as you get pregnant they take off has nothing to do with you it's the child and the responsibility. Then you're going to allow him to see and be with his child and not help you out financially? Why should he get all the pleasure without taking the responsibility? It's stupid to me. If I could comfortably take care of myself a home bills and my child and the father of my child wanted nothing to do with the child then I would not expect him to pay child support. But if he takes off and then all of a sudden wants to be around the child but doesn't want to take financial responsibility he can kick rocks.
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mrsm82218
Michelle·Мама двоих (1 год, 8 лет)
Sooo dad’s don’t need to have any financial responsibility?
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