I feel so judged.... one thing that I didn't know about babies is the one thing that triggers…
I feel so judged.... one thing that I didn't know about babies is the one thing that triggers everyone and decides to call me a bad mom for still learning... I'm 5 months pregnant I'm reading every fucking day about pregnancy and the baby after she's born. Sorry I'm not a fucking expert..... Yeah sure I'm 20 years old.. sure I'm not as knowledgeable as some others are.. but I'm trying to learn so I can be the best mom my little girl can have... Like I get I'm young but what's the problem.. I have a loving family, A loving man, lots of supportive and helpful mom friends, my own house, my own vehicle, sorry i gave up partying and doing drugs to grow up and make my life better for myself and my new baby. I feel so targeted by people who I thought were good people....... :'(
Coco·
It never stops!! It will get worse when baby comes LOL! What will change is how you filter the information. Your hormones are all over the place at the moment so they are stopping you from thinking as clearly as you normally would.
You are 20 you’re a woman! No child comes with a manual. My aunt has three boys and one girl and I tell you they are all so different!!
But honestly please remember these comments are just opinions not fact!!
Smile nod and move on. Sometimes you cant even run, but wherever you can just excuse yourself and remove yourself from their space! I was on bed rest with the world and its homie giving me advise left right and fooking centre I couldn’t even escape haha! I laugh now but at the time I could have killed someone.
But honestly stay calm, and filter!! Your baby is your baby. When he or she cries it will be you they will look for not the opinion brigade! Don’t panic.
Telia Dove·
@memybumpandi your exactly Right
Coco·
@telia.dove, believe me everyone knows better than you!! Looool!! Remember they’re just opinions!
Mikayla Nichol ·
Hun I'm 17 and have a daughter I'm learning everyday. I gave up my whole life for this little one. Im constantly being judged but never letting what ppl have to say put me down. Like memybumpandi said they are just opinions.
Dani·
Мама сына (5 лет)
You are gonna be the best mom for ur lil one.. every babu ia different and she choose u as her mom. So fuck all
Kiana Buni ·
Мама сына-младенца
I was 21 when I gave birth to my.son and I'm married have my. Own apartment able to stay home and still get judged. Luckily. Not by family. I'm sorry people are shaming you for not knowing everything
Telia Dove·
@mama_of_one I don't understand why people have to be rude like that. It is so hard to sink everything in especially when I can't even focus properly anymore 😂😂 lol
Kiana Buni ·
Мама сына-младенца
@telia.dove my boy is 9 mo the now and sometimes people look at me like Im a teen mom. Which also nothing wrong with my mom was a teen mom and she is a wonderful mom. But like seriously I have a 3 year old sister when I'm with her you should see the looks I get lol 😂 😂