Would love some advice ladies.... okay so basically I haven’t told any of my family yet that I’m pregnant purely because…

You are overthinking babes. Don’t hesitate to tell anyone about ur good news. You have every right to celebrate your new baby 😍😍

@lindaandaria, no exactly I totally agree I hardly see my brother as he lives in Essex and me London so we rarely see each other , I think it’s more his wife that I think will get upset about it as it’s her first but you can’t help theses things, like you said it’s my life, thanks for the help 😘 xx

I can see where your coming from, but don't put your happiness second fiddle though just because your brother is having his first child. They're child is important to them and your child is important to you.

I mean you were so excited to be pregnant and to add to your family, you should be able to share that joy just as much as them.

@bonnieb, see I would be like that if it was the other way round I wouldn’t care at all lol , I would just be happy for them that they were having a baby, I think it’s more his wife that I’m worried about as she’s abit of a brat to say in the nicest way possible. Maybe I’m just overthinking lol xx

@nam05, thanks Hun 😘, I probably am overthinking I just don’t want to upset anyone xx

don't overthink it 😁 my brother and his girlfriend announced they were pregnant when I was pregnant and I was made up for them, not only was I becoming a mammy but an aunty too 😁 x

My sister told everyone she was pregnant with her first the day I found out I was preggers with Maeve. I felt like I was stealing her thunder! Wait until after your scan and id tell your brother and his wife first and say you have a little cousin on the way. Im sure people will understand that you want to wait till after your scan and it might bring you and your sister inlaw closer being pregnany together. X

@beffgoude, thanks Hun 😘, exactly I’m so excited to have another baby, I think I’m overthinking it I just don’t want to upset anyone xx

@natalie.louise89, exactly I will become an Aunty for the first time which I’m made up about 😊, I just hope they take it well that I’m having a baby too xx

@kayteamay, I hope so I hope I’m just being silly and everything works out xx

My brother and his girlfriend lost a baby a month or so before I found out I was pregnant. I hated having to tell them but I didn't want them finding out from someone else. When I told them my brothers girlfriend sent me vile messages and told my brother stuff I never said to her. I haven't spoken to them since. But his girlfriend is a psycho so your experience will be nowhere near as bad hun x

@sarahlucindagiddins I'm sure they will 😁 my brother and his girlfriend were hesitant to tell me at first but I was buzzing for them and now Kai gets a little cousin close in age 😁 my first time becoming an aunty too xx

@natalie.louise89, I’m going to tell them first after my scan fingers crossed it will go okay xx

@megan-leigh, that’s so horrible I’m so sorry Hun, yeah I don’t think it will be too bad I’m just worried what they are going to say, mostly the wife as she’s really like a diva and everything has to be her way xx

@sarahlucindagiddins Its fine I'm used to not having any family support as I've had to fend for myself since I was 16. I'm sure they will be happy for You! You can't help when you end up getting pregnant. It happens when it wants to happen xx

My sister didnt tell anyone until she was about 16weeks both times. First time because she didn't find out until she was 14weeks 😂 2nd time I was also pregnant (My first) and she didn't want to 'steal my thunder'. I kinda thought that was sweet of her, but she didn't have to. I wouldn't have minded if she's told everyone around the same time. It was kinda nice to go through pregnancy together. Tell people when you want to & how you want to. If they've already made the announcement they will have had some time to shine and enjoy the 'attention' before you do.

@megan-leigh, omg what? Pls avoid such people 🙄😱

@nam05 I don't speak to any of them anymore. I have amazing support on this site and from my fiance and that's all I need x

@megan-leigh, just stay away from all things negative during this phase hun 😘😘

@nam05 That's what I've done. Just want to stay positive and enjoy this as much as possible x