@madukes thanks and I hope so too.

@donnydayb, Good luck! I hope it works.

@madukes oh ok now I understand and yeah your so right. And I'm going to try my best to get that though his thick skull

@donnydayb, the last sentence means that while we are there taking the bad behavior from him, he will see that you will let him treat you badly so he will continue to do it. We show them how to treat us by allowing them to talk to us or how they act towards.

@madukes what does the last sentence mean. And yeah I know I went though that with a ex. But he is so different he does try to be there but then he doesn't all at the same time. There is just so much stress in our lives that it makes it five times worse for anything to be figured out.

@donnydayb, I understand. I hope you realize that you are better than that. Love, you need more than love. You can truly be in love with him and it still might not work cuz he is the issue. You are only supposed to be there for him for a certain amount of time.....not forever becaus of love and history. U will regret it if he doesnt care enough to changes. Our problem as women is that we are too hopeful sometimes. We stay too long and in the meantime, you have shown him how you will let him treat you.

@momof2prince same and thanks for the late night talk and also same to you.

I hope you can talk it out with him and feel better 😚

@momof2prince see that's the thing even if he would have told me that he needed space how cause I'm with him traveling for his job I'm almost 12 hours from home. Plus we have a son together and I have taken care of the loose things that he doesn't realize I do so I would have to make sure all that is done before anything. There is just to much in this relationship for it to go so sour now. You know. See I can't even be on here talking to you lady's cause he sees it as me talking about him but I'm not I'm just trying to find the answer the right one that I need to put my head at rest. And try to go to bed.

@donnydayb I know your pain but I wish my bf would leave me alone because this shit hurt, what they say let it go and if it's meant to be they come back or he'll you might find someone that respect relationship just as much as you

@madukes @momof2prince I know but he gets this from his dad cause his dad does this to any woman that he comes into eye contact with. And I do love the shit out of him I just wish he could see that he doesn't need to act like that and that he can make it pass this. I want the man I fell in love with before this traveling to any and every state in the USA job happened.

Pls let him go! Dont stand in his way. If he is talkn about u in that manner to others theres not much respect there.

You deserve better love, keep yo head for the lil one