I love my husband, but....

Why does he think running errands with a newborn and school ager isnt stressful or hard?

I did a test about a year ago. I sent him out for groceries with a very specific list, no kids, during peak grocery hours and a time limit. He came back with mostly right stuff and acted as if i had asked him to dismantle a bomb, when he had to get back by a certain time.

They just dont get what we do. He assumes im hangingn it all day and i assume hes working all day. Im supposed to check in and show him pics of the baby, i do. Sometimes I just am unhappy with him, but thats a huge issue for him.