My man, not married but basically we are. Has been watching porn every single morning. says I act like I am not attracted to him when he tried. But he said that because I didn't have sex after I caught him watching porn on Valentine's because he forgot what day it was. Until he found a gift under his towel that morning Now he random freaks out on me, anything he fucked up on he blames me and freaks out. We have dealt with him cheating a few times. We have been together for 5 years now. I know you may be thinking 'just leave' but I can't I'm still trying to get my diploma online and get a career going. Other wise I'm on SSI with a two year old. On top of him treating me like I'm just a piece of ass. He never changes his daughter, only plays on his video games and stays up till I fall asleep.
I need some real advice besides 'break up' or 'leave him'
Please I'm a mom just needing help comping with my situation
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@kat616 I am not sure how he would handle that. Maybe if we took classes he wouldn't feel so pressured.
It happens . I've left him and came back last year in January. But it just doesn't seem like he's changed
@foreveramamma I'm sorry your going threw this I went threw similar.
Is he willing to put any effort into the relationship? Maybe see a marriage therapist or, for less pressure, a marriage enhancement class? I'm sorry you're going through this, that's hard.
Well depends what you want advice on. Only you are going to decide wether your going to stay or go, yeah staying right now might be finicaily easier but emotionaly its going to wreck you. Of course hes going to blame you for his indiscretions some will actually pick a fight before they go to do there actions so they feel no guilt after. Whether your staying or going focus on your child an you! Keep on with getting your diploma. Pamper yourself. Spend time with your kiddle an forget him only talk to him when needed not for small talk an ignore any remarks it'll be very hard
Because he say he is the only one who's ID and name is on the rental contract.
Plus I am 10 hours away from any of my personal Family members
We have a house together, he goes to work paying rent I pay the rest of the bills. Last night he threatened to kick me out because I brought of a person name.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Hey ladies question so I’m messing with this guy and me and him been talking for a minute and we have been having sex and like some stuff is off like he don’t want me at his house and he’s 30 and like he comes round only at night time and like after we done having sex he hurry up and wash his self off like his face and mouth and penis with soap and when we kiss he want me to wipe my lipgloss off first
Does these sound like signs of him cheating and him having someone back at home ??????
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
I have a quick random question
is it okay that your husband watches porn??
I want to be mad at him but I'm not sure if I should be??
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@foreveramamma, here's a recommendation. I've taught these classes and they're wonderful. I wish they had it in more locations, but I'm glad they have it online too. I wish the best for you.
I'm in school too, by the way! Kudos to you- it's seriously hard doing school with kids.