@yessbetty, youre welcome. Dealing with miscarriage is so hard, because you bond with baby as soon as you know its there. But you will come to peace with the situation. But please don’t worry about others, just take time for yourself.

@memybumpandi tyvm for ur support right now that helps me find a starting point.

@yessbetty, I had to go back to work after a second trimester miscarriage and folk kept asking how she was and to see pictures.

It is really hard, maybe speak to you manager and ask him or her to tell your team before you get there. Family will be easier. But honestly there is no rush. Just deal with each person as you cone across them. You could send a group text just saying that you have miscarried and need a bit of time to digest what has happened to family and thank them for their support. I did that with my first miscarriage. That helped a lot.

The only person I want to be around is my man and that's only because he was there so I can't hide it

I told my grama and my brother I can't even face them

I haven't announced anything but it's. It not like people who know me can't tell

@memybumpandi ty I haven't seen seen my family or friends that know and I have to return to work on Wednesday 😔

It is so hard, but honestly erase it from your mind. You have enough emotions to deal with. Most will use common sense. Those who don’t keep your answer short. This time as difficult as it is and believe you me I know will pass. But just focus on you.

It is very common to experience it. Just try to look at it as a support system that you can reach out to

U announced it before ur first trimester was up?