Ugh. I got summoned to jury duty. How do I get out of this?! I have absolutely NO-ONE to watch my child. Hence why I'm a stay at home mom. I have no transportation at all. I don't have family or friends to help. And the place is a hour and some minutes away. There is no way I'm able to go. So what I'm gonna end up in jail over something I have no control over? 😠
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
So I have question I'm 23 weeks and I thought a 9 lbs weight gain was good but now I'm re thinking it what is normal at this stage is it to much I'm stressing out I am really watching what I eat and I really don't over eat sad mommy here 😔
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't have any diseases, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, i don't have a bad heart, lungs, or anything else. So I'm healthy I'm just over weight. So then we argued about him having an issue with my weight.. Am i wrong in this? Because it really hurt my feelings.. I've tried sooo many different things to lose weight but having hypothyroidism makes you gain/hard to lose. And my medications for depression and anxiety cause you to gain also.. So it's very hard to lose weight.. But i didn't even know he had an issue with my weight until last night..
I see a SUPER faint line! Or I'm crazy.. Pic was taken within 5 minutes. Either I'm pregnant or I'm having line eyes.
Karen Guerra·
Мама дочки-младенца
Maybe if you call and explain that you have no transportation nor someone to watch your little one they’ll understand, well at least I’d hope so
Erika·
Мама сына (2 года)
@karenr1408 I'm going to call. But I was told by people who had to go that, that wasn't good enough if they had to do it with one mom who had a small child they would have to dismiss every mom who had similar problems.
Erika·
Мама сына (2 года)
@karenr1408 1 mom here in Michigan didn't have child care so she showed up with her child and got arrested. Blows my mind
Karen Guerra·
Мама дочки-младенца
@erikasmiles123, Wow that is just ridiculous you don’t go you’re in trouble you arrive and still get in trouble. They really need to fix these exceptions
Danielle VonKotz ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
Erika·
Мама сына (2 года)
@karenr1408 I agree. I've been up all night with anxiety over it. Even though it's out of my hands.
Danielle VonKotz ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
This is what’s online. I went to mine when they called me and they asked me if I could get a babysitter and my answer was yes so they chose me. But I know people who have called and say they are the only one who can take care of the kids an got excused.
Erika·
Мама сына (2 года)
@butterfli_luv Yes. It says I'm on call for 2 week's. I know there's no way I'll be able to go. Scared the cops will just show up at my door and take me to jail.
Erika·
Мама сына (2 года)
@daniellevonkotz that's what I'm going to call tomorrow about. I make nothing at all. The state knows I don't have income.. idk how in the heck my name even got in there lol.
Karen Guerra·
Мама дочки-младенца
@erikasmiles123, I hope you get it all solved out, try not to stress about it since like you said it’s out of your hands.
Erika·
Мама сына (2 года)
@butterfli_luv definitely going to call tomorrow/today. I have proof I don't have any income nor do I own any vehicle. I'm praying to god they just dismiss me.
Erika·
Мама сына (2 года)
@karenr1408 thank-you I wish I found out in the at like 10am lol. My anxiety is so bad I couldn't sleep.
brittany h·
When i got served i wrote a letter telling them i was breastfeeding and my doc signed it and i was dismissed. But that was TN
Steph·
I live in NJ and I just called and explained I was a SAHM and they said, ok no problem and took me off of it for the next 5 years!
Chelsea Chalson·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I went online and filled the form out and said I had no one to watch my twins. They let me off the hook the next day. I didn’t even need a doctors note or proof.