My doctor asked me to decide if I want to get a tubal ligation during my c-section or if I want to go on birth control at 6 weeks. This is my second pregnancy and although I have had a rough two pregnancies due to blood pressure being a problem in both I don't know that I for sure will be happy with the two kids what if I get it done and later I am sad that I don't have the option for a girl after the new babiness settles down. My husband if he had it his way would have me go through the tubal because he worries about me going through with a 3rd pregnancy health wise even though he's always made it clear he wanted to try for a girl. What was your guys experience? Did you end up regretting your decision with whatever choice you had made?
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I was asked if I wanted to get my tubes tied and I told them that I didn’t know that was an option because I thought the requirement was 3+ kids and/or over 30 years old. He said now that they offer it after second pregnancy. I declined. I think I will though after a third child.
@nerualauren yea I said no right away but now after talking to my husband I don't know its not necessarily that I want a third for sure but more of that I don't think I want that option taken away even if I didn't have a third