I feel so unattractive I miss the body I used to have and how more alive and pretty I used to look.
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@krismoore87 you are right I got to try and not be so hard on myself. I have plans for when we move to buy and elliptical machine for our new place so I can work out and start eating better. My husband also tells me I'm gorgeous no matter what so its just me being really critical of myself.
And, if your partner or someone else is pointing their finger or being rude with their opinions, tell them to go do what you did and then say something about it.
Again, it's time. You keep doing what you can. Please don't forget, it may havd only taken 9 months to make that precious one, but, there is no way you can expect your body to full recover. Working your butt off now- compared to then, is totally different! You worked really hard while you were pregnant.Your body doesn t have that sort of luggage anymore, so now it doesn t feel like what your echausting over day by day is as hard.
You need to find a comfortable way to OWN it! I'm not suggesting to pretend to be happy, but knowing you are going to do something about it have some fun. Being vulnerable and uncomfortable with yourself will cause your body to npt lose but gain more- stress weight. Look around what's available, that makes you laugh. I went from pre pregnancy weight- 135 lbs< this is ideal for me because of how I'm built and it's comfortable, to post pregnancy- 228 lbs. Stress kept it on, and being sick. As soon as i found a way to get my head straight the weight started to make it's way back to norm
I have a gym in my garage it helps but it is too cold for me now
@krismoore87 yeah I know just bums me out looking at then and now pictures.
@tatianna81 yeah I plan to get some exercise equipment for the house after we move so I can do it at night when the baby sleeps.
We can always make ourselves better I gained a little weight and by it being so cold outside don’t help me workout but when spring comes it’s on
Your body will adjust. Some of us just take a bit more time, just hold your head up. You are liked not just primarily based on your looks.
@tatianna81 its a sad feeling. 😞😞😞 I know I don't turn heads anymore
I guess sharing my personal info on here means having it used against me in a personal disagreement yes I was raped and no you have no right to use my daughter against me as a personal jab
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I could really use some opinions. I'm stumped and dh is no help.
I'm gonna be so uncomfortable with having to use pads after giving birth. I absolutely hate pads. I haven't used them since I was about 15. 😖
@tatianna81 That's awesome I wish I had that!