So bd decided he wanted to be there for our unborn child because he doesn't want to be a "fucked up father" well it's to…

@deejd np hun ❤😛

Thank you a lot 😊

But yeah im here if u need advice or just need 2 vent i know how it is i been there b4

Yup np at all im here if u need to talk do whatever is best for u and your kids whatever ur heart tells u and your kids is what make u strong girl ull b iigh im preety sure they dont care if he not around they not worried about him so u dont worry n b strong cuz like i said i know how u feel i put myself in ppls shoes n all u want is ya kids to b happy and the best for them and it hurts u but they r good so u b fine. But na dont put jim on cs cuz then he will b around n he just gonna hurt your babies u been doing it alone u dont need him fuck his ass .. He choose his bed he need to lay in that shit n u need to keep your head up cuz u doing what u need to b doing and thats tsking care of your kids thats all they need u can b thier father u dont need his ass he can go kick fuckin rocks lolol

@larubia2723 thats true & thank you so much 💯❤️ & yeah my mother was saying to put him on cs too & I wanted to get full custody & get my son last name changed its hyphenated but I just want him to have mine & it's crazy because one minute he'll have me thinking he will keep his word & be the best he can be but it always fails I'm so tired & done I just have to continue to be strong for the kiddos

I would say put his ass on cs but than that mean he would need to see them so u good u got this

Ive seen friends of mine who in similar situation and guess what they got married and thier husbamd loves her kids like his own treats him like his own love them to death its crazy more love than thier own father

I feel u ma but fuck that someone will step up as a man for your kids and gonna love them like thier own cuz everyone deserves to have a father and sometimes the father can be unrelated and its a blessing when that happens so blessings ur way i know it hurts but all u can do is b there for them like u already r ur kids r good they have a great mother fuck him no disrespect to him he lost his chance ur babies r better off than to b with there dad when he feel like it feel me so dont feel bad u should feel blessed

@larubia2723 yes & it just hurts me so much because ik how it feels to grow up without a father & I don't want my kids to know how that feels & I feel like sometimes I try to force him to be there but I can't make that happen if he doesn't want it to happen 💯 it just sucks 😔

U right thats just gonna hurt your babies

U right yeah i didnt know that fuck it u r thier mom n father rs he the one missing out and he will regret it. Dam shame smh

@larubia2723 I gave him more than a second chance plenty of times I've been giving him second chances since last year he says he wants to be there then days later he switches up again & he doesn't do nothing, ask about them or provide for them at all even if I ask him to so I made my decision as a mother to do for them by their self because I don't want their father coming in & out their life when he feels like it 💯

I understand that thats how u feel but u shouldnt make that desicion for ur kids cuz regardless piece or shit or not he is still thier father ppl make mistakes n deserve a second chance