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Sarah D.
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I’m beyond pissed right now and I need to vent! So, my baby daddy just confirmed what I already thought for a while now.…

I’m beyond pissed right now and I need to vent!

So, my baby daddy just confirmed what I already thought for a while now. We broke up when he cheated on me September and he’s been doing EXTRA stuff to help me. He told me tonight that he’s helping me throughout my pregnancy the way he is because he thinks it’ll give him a better chance at getting back together with me after she’s born. He said he’s not helping me just to do it and that if it wouldn’t help his chances with me, he wouldn’t be trying as hard as he is. Not because I’m carrying his child! Not because she’s his responsibility too! Not because he wants to be a nice and helpful that my pregnancy has been kind rough! It’s because he has his own selfish reasons and thinks it’ll give him a better chance at getting what he wants in the end.

I AM ABSOLUTELY LIVID! 🤬


Sorry, guys. I really needed to vent. Thanks for listening!

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sjo1

Steph

Smh. "Men"..... I'll never understand them!

swdemopulos1

Sarah D.

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@sjo1, my blood is boiling girl!

sjo1

Steph

@swdemopulos1 I do not blame you. So selfish! I'm sorry 😔

swdemopulos1

Sarah D.

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@sjo1, it just goes to show where his heart really is. It’s in his penis with his brain. Lol

sjo1

Steph

@swdemopulos1 that's how most of them are lol

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