I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
So I'm no where near my due date but we were talking and do you guys think it's wrong that I don't want his mom in the room when I deliver? I only want him , my mom and my grandmother. Me and his mom aren't that close and I'm not really a fan of hers she does stuff that grind my gears but I keep it cordial because that's his mom. I just don't want her in there I don't feel like she needs to be In there am I wrong?
Tell me if I'm wrong here. My husband's sil has covid. She's obviously quarantining in her house but is still loving on her kids and husband. I'm sorry but if I had it I would lock myself in a room. She hasn't gotten her kids tested... they're obviously doing the whole remote learning and quarantining for two weeks but she plans to send them back without testing them on the Monday after Thanksgiving 😬😱. My husband thinks I'm overreacting but I told him I don't want to see them on Christmas. I'm in the middle of iui cycles and don't want to risk this. Besides I don't think I could sit in a room with her knowing how irresponsible she has been not only with her family's health but those that are coming into contact with her and her family.
Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Amber McCowin ·
Мама сына-младенца
My husbands father was physically abusive (he’s 75 so old school and was terrible) but is the kindest man with our son. He’s a completely different person towards his grandson as he was towards his son 35 years ago so maybe they’ll treat their grandchildren better but my mom was abusive towards me (starved and neglected me and social services removed me at 12) and I haven’t spoken to her since and even if she claims to have changed I’d NEVER let her around my children so it’s completely up to you how you feel about who you have your child around but I’d make the decision with your child’s best interests at heart and no one else’s because that’s all that matters and your child comes before anyone else family or not
deleted-user·
I disowned my mother and her side of the family. My father passed when I wad young. I only talk to my brother. My mother was horrible and told me I was lying when I told her that her father molested me at 13. So yeah.
babymay2016·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (12 нед.)
Totally your decision. I feel the same way about my mom, but she is around my son everyday. Nobody else understands why I feel this way. But she is very toxic to be around and a lot of her behaviors I do not agree with. It isn't ideal now but one day I plan to not have either of my children around her at all... I am very mindful of things when she is around him. Nobody else needs to understand why you feel that way or agree with you, for it to be the right decision. I know my mom would never physically hurt my son but it's inevitable that she will hurt his mind.
deleted-user·
I'm in a similar situation and I believe it should be up to you. They are your kids, you have every right to make decisions for them until they're grown.. and I'm sure you're only looking out for them and doing what is in their best interests.
shyausea·
Мама сына (1 год)
I disowned my mother because she was a narcissistic person and my son does not know her nore does he need to. If you want your children to never know those people for those reasons then stick to it don’t change it you know what’s best for your children don’t ever second guess it because next thing you know you allow it one time and something bad happens . Stand your ground because no matter what you are the only one who knows what is best for your child men seem to push things off a lot easier because they fail to fully comprehend lol
Samantha·
Мама сына-младенца
Your kids your choice that's all it comes down to. In my opinion though I agree with you.