I don't see an issue with coloring kids hair and yadya. I probably wouldn't bleach it though lol.

Not to mention and this is a completely different issue... she can't buy medicine for her kid with an ear infection.. I had to buy it.. But she can buy hair bleach and foil to do that... .. I need to pop this baby out these hormones are to damn much.

@mamizamorano17. Yeah but I'm in the wrong for having a problem with it... again I'm just the step parent I have no say.... he thinks I'm being childish by making a "fuss" about it.. 🤷‍♀️ oh well.
Guess I'll be the "told you so" one at the end of it all.

@rae.smith8907, but he is a guy and can shave his hair off and it be no problem! Girls can’t and definitely not a 8 year old 🤦🏻‍♀️

@mamizamorano17 I asked him about it when he came back inside and he has or sees absolutely nothing wrong with it. His response was "I was getting high lights in my hair at that age" ... so my response was fine when her hair starts falling out in 2 years from this shit.. I don't wanna hear it. I started when I was 15 and by the time I was 20 I hated my hair.. and to this day. I'm 28 now I have issues with my hair.

@rae.smith8907, oh wow that sucks maybe u should sit down with your SO and talk to him .. she is probably going to hate her hair when she gets older .

She's my step daughter so I of course don't have any kind of say in the matter... But her mom's already bleached half of her head and put permanent blue and purple in her hair and now that it's all faded. Kairi [my stepdaughter] wants her whole head dyed blonde. So her mom and her dad [my SO] agreed to bleach her hair to put high lights in it..using foil wraps and hair bleach...
All of this is within a 4 month time frame

It pisses me off because by the time she's 10 her hairs going to be dead and falling out..

Not to mention she's freaking 8 years old. Why are we teaching her that the way she looks is important... let her be a kid.

I personally wouldn’t because I regret ever dying my hair . I think high school is the perfect time for her to really decide what she wants to do .

in my opinion that's too young...

Personally I wouldn’t let my kids dye their hair till high school but that’s when I was allowed to but from personal experience I had to stop bleaching mine because it was falling out and I only did it three times a year I’m a year out with no bleaching no dyeing and my hair still falls out no matter what I do