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Autumn Haywood
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The other day I got into it with the father of my child and he told me he doesn't love me anymore for a lot of reasons…

The other day I got into it with the father of my child and he told me he doesn't love me anymore for a lot of reasons and we would only deal with each other for our daughter. I've been so broken since. He tried to apologize and take it back. Asked me to forgive him and give him another chance. But i can't even look at him. He looked me in my eyes when he said what he said. And told me just last week he will never be for sure how he feels for me so I shouldn't wait for him to love me properly. That hurt too. But he says he doesn't want to lose his family or see me be happy with anyone else. I think I haven't given birth because I stay stressed. 😔😔😔

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motherofthemoon

Autumn HaywoodМама дочки-младенца

@kadolphus27 my love for him was never a question I treat him like a king. He on the other hand questions if he loves me and doesn't treat me the best or do a thing for me

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yrhdbdb

yrhdbdb

girlfriend, if you guys love each others like u guys say u do, you guys need to treat your love for each other like you 2 are married. Which means work it out no matter what. Both of you guys need to communicate and compromise. Remember, you are hormonal and pregnant. You may love your man one day and hate him the next. Because love will overcome anything. Be patient.

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teebaby

TeeTee

@motherofthemoon I'm dealing with it the best I can but I'm sorry you going through that I pray things get better for you I really do

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motherofthemoon

Autumn HaywoodВ ожидании первенца

@teebaby I'm sorry you had to deal with it too. Men are the worst sometimes. wish things were different for us☹️☹️☹️

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teebaby

TeeTee

@motherofthemoon I no the feeling really

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motherofthemoon

Autumn HaywoodВ ожидании первенца

@teebaby I already have depression and horrible anxiety that spikes when I cry. Since that has been said to me I turned off my emotions. He tries to act like nothing happened but I dont. I won't forget it. I know I don't feel the same toward him. Because he could say that so easily to me. So I'm easily turning off the love I had for him. Idc anymore I honestly just want to hold my daughter

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teebaby

TeeTee

Just try an not stress your self, easier said than done I know but trust me I heard them words and I went into a deep depression and anxiety that is a real bad feeling

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motherofthemoon

Autumn HaywoodВ ожидании первенца

@teebaby as soon as I get away to mend myself I plan on doing so. Right now I'm in a predicament where I have no choice but to use the shelter he is providing 😣😣

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teebaby

TeeTee

I know the feeling and it can break you in so many ways but you have a Minnie me coming soon an she gone look up to you take alil bit of time cause I no he really hurt you bad with them words

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motherofthemoon

Autumn HaywoodВ ожидании первенца

@lulu85_18 I don't know. He hurt me pretty bad. Right now I'm staying with him till I get my own place for my daughter and I

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lulu85_18

LuluМама сына (7 лет), беременна (16 нед.)

Keep the relationship cordial for your baby’s sake, but it sounds like you both need time away to process all of this. How could he say everything he said and not mean it? That is so hurtful. How does he expect you to look past it? He has a lot of explaining to do.

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