My fience called off our wedding last week and I am an emotional wreck he says we need space and time to see if we can get back to who we were. I love him so much and don’t want no body but him it’s just hard to deal with him not being mine and I know there’s a possibility of us working things out and with time things will get easier. It’s just hard being patient and having an all most 2 year old that doesn’t understand why we not going home we’re Daddy is when mommy gets off work. All I want to do is cry but I am trying to be strong for her.
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I'm sorry you're goin through that. If its meant to b it'll work out. Just focus on U and your child. Message me if u need someone to talk to
A lot of men like playing house.. Try the family thing out and skip out on the commitment because if fear. It's easier to break up when no vows are exchanged because no commitment was made. I know it isn't easy but maybe this is a good thing for both of you. Why be in a relationship with someone who is impartial and not giving you all you deserve. Take time to find yourself in the process, who are you? because who you were at that start if the relationship may not be who you are today. Have the attitude that you are loved you are love and no matter what you will be able to conquer anything. If you are him are meant to walk down that aisle then make sure it's on your terms for all the right reasons without a doubt in your spirit.
Awww im sorry to hear that. Was it sudden? Maybe he was jus starting to get nervous about being married I am sure everything will work out hun!
Tell him “okay “ and live alone. If he loves you he’ll come over. If no - you don’t need this man, find another one. Why would you make smb loving you? Have your pride.
I understand. My husband has walked out on me twice (before we were married) and even now we have fights and he try’s to leave and I tell him don’t come back. Men like to run from there problems. It will all work out in the end.. 💗 no one can stop gods plans
I understand what you are going through and it sucks. Last year me and my husband split for awhile (his decision) and went back to live with my parents. My daughter had just made 3 so she was constantly questioning and once had her own little break down because we was packing up all of her toys. We are back together and working on things but the 3 months we was apart was a living hell.
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So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Being a mom is such hard work when will I ever get the hang of this😔
You can't get back to who you were by having space.... If that's what he really wants is to be with you then y'all need to sit down and talk about how to improve the relationship.