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How Can I Get More Help as a Stay-at-Home Mom?

Okay mommas I have to vent! I'm a stay at home mom and housewife my husband works full time but I do have a full time job in the same way and some days I don't get everything single thing in the house done, my son is 6 months old going on 7 so he's on the move crawling and getting into anything and everything I'm so tired of the same routine everyday and when my husband comes home he eats we watch TV together then we hes done most of the time just goes to the room and plays his video games I don't mind cause that's his chill time but I don't have no outlet at all we moved from florida to Georgia I have no friends , no work life nothing to go do I don't have the kind of money to just go out shopping everyday I just wish he would tell me how much he appreciates things more like all I do have the house cleaned and dinner cooked since our son was born I've have gave so much leeway with our son I don't make him get up in the middle of night if landon wakes up he doesn't change diapers unless I asked him to etc... then he tells me all I have to do is ask but I don't think I should have to ask for him to do something I understands he works all day but can I please just have a little help I would be so happy if he came home after work ate dinner then took care of our son for just a couple of hours and I can clean up after dinner then take a shower or something without worrying about the baby. We don't ever really get free time accept when we take trips to Florida every few months to see family but it's like over and back to the same old Routine I love my life and family wouldn't trade it for nothing but I just want some help without having to ask. Sorry for the long vent I don't ever vent or let things out so when I finally do its not short.

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dandilioncalalilly

katrina ploszay

В ожидании первенца

I’ve learned men are stupid even the best ones. They don’t get clues. Just ask him or you will never get anything. He’s not a mind reader he’s your partner so communicate. I used to think the same way but marriage counseling and stuff later I learned the hard way. If u need something ask and communicate will save you so much heart ache

graceallen1019

Grace

Мама сына-младенца

Thanks!! My birthday is next month so that's a great idea I'll probably treat myself to

roses702

Rose

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You should go out and do a spa day/ massage/pedi for yourself, or just something for yourself .. Always makes me feel better

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