I really hate talking about the bills wit my husband because every other day he changes on wat we…

I know what you mean...my hubby is the same way

Write a list of bills organized by pay date and importance. Post the list in the fridge and pay the bills in that order every month. No changes unless agreed upon and for a good reason both understand.

The end.

Children do what feels good and adults make plans and follow them.

Check out Dave Ramsey. Definitely helped my husband and I with our bills. Now there’s no fighting!

@charlottej, we do we sit down and pay the most important ones but we will agree on one thing then the next day he will change his mind lol and it drives me crazy lol I always tell him don’t tell me any plans anymore because I know they are gonna change every five seconds lol

@megraefish, thanks I’ll check him out

@b.smith82815, he changes his mind all the dam time with everything and it drives me crazy lol so when we come to an agreement for something I know the next day he’s gonna change his mind

@mommavee7 have him sign the plan you make. Its a contract. If he can't hold to the contract he isn't respecting you as an equal partner in your relationship. Maybe counselling? Not sure what to do if he won't work with you.

@charlottej, he’s brought up going to counseling and he knows he needs to stop changing his mind so much but it just drives me crazy lol because he’s like that with everything

Yeah. My husband like a to bemoan decisions we make after Its too late to change them. Drives me batty.