I really hate talking about the bills wit my husband because every other day he changes on wat we are paying First then gets mad me when I tell him he’s confusing me ugh I just want to pull my hair out
@charlottej, he’s brought up going to counseling and he knows he needs to stop changing his mind so much but it just drives me crazy lol because he’s like that with everything
@mommavee7 have him sign the plan you make. Its a contract. If he can't hold to the contract he isn't respecting you as an equal partner in your relationship. Maybe counselling? Not sure what to do if he won't work with you.
@b.smith82815, he changes his mind all the dam time with everything and it drives me crazy lol so when we come to an agreement for something I know the next day he’s gonna change his mind
@charlottej, we do we sit down and pay the most important ones but we will agree on one thing then the next day he will change his mind lol and it drives me crazy lol I always tell him don’t tell me any plans anymore because I know they are gonna change every five seconds lol
Check out Dave Ramsey. Definitely helped my husband and I with our bills. Now there’s no fighting!
Write a list of bills organized by pay date and importance. Post the list in the fridge and pay the bills in that order every month. No changes unless agreed upon and for a good reason both understand.
The end.
Children do what feels good and adults make plans and follow them.
I know what you mean...my hubby is the same way
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Yeah. My husband like a to bemoan decisions we make after Its too late to change them. Drives me batty.