I've been reflecting quite a bit lately about giving birth. I feel a variety of emotions: joy, satisfaction, happiness, completeness, excitement, anxiety
I have done a lot of research with the help of my two Registered Midwives about this route for child birth. I have been questioned about my choice by several family members, co-workers and friends. Some questions are sprouted from curiosity, others are often rude. I am not usually asked about the safety or the success rate..no...it's usually about my lack of knowledge. I've had someone say to me, "Are you scared of a hospital birth?" My response was simple, "No, I just want a natural and wholesome experience for myself and my baby." To which they replied, "You've clearly never given birth before." I was hurt, this wasn't the first time I've been ridiculed for my birth plan. I don't get a lot of support in this regard, however, I will say that I have received support from a few people. Most people call me crazy, stupid or just plain inexperienced. Has anyone else experienced this? Sometimes it is difficult to put the opinions of others aside, I'm influenced heavily by how others view me, I've always been that way. I will not change my plan to suit anyone else, but I can't help but feel that others aren't excited for me because they can't relate to my holistic philosophy. #waterbirth #midwifery #holistichealth #naturalbirth #homedelivery #momlife #nodrugs #doterra #essentialoils
If you have any legit questions please watch 'The business of being born' documentary.
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Birth is personal. Not everyone will understand how we choose to welcome our children into the world. Don't feel hurt, you're doing what comes natural 🙌 people seem to ignore that women were giving birth at home long before medicine became advanced. Have a beautiful home birth 👶
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
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Our new group this week is:
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Hey Moms,
Here is the full list of groups! Please tag the admin in the comments below to be added. Thank you to all the moms leading these groups.
Group Name Admin
Postpartum Depression @Heera
Fitness/weight loss @jgruenwald
Miscarriage and Loss @bri92
Couponing @aydans.mommy
NICU @scottiesmommy
Domestic Violence @smilingwithmyawesome4kids
Kids with special needs @smilingwithmyawesome4kids
Car sear safety @santistevanmommie
Babywea...
Good for you! No one should ever tell you what's right or wrong or how to considering each woman's body is different. I feel if you have a back up plan, for example I wanted a natural birth and ended up getting a c section due to no dilation then I say you are the momma and go for it!