I guess the vow for better or for worse means nothing now. If you’re that unhappy maybe the problem is you. Have you gone to see a therapist or a psychiatrist? Maybe you are suffering from depression. Maybe your husband is suffering from depression. I’m not saying you should stay but maybe some sort of counseling will help. I’m sure you’ve stopped reading by now but my husband and i almost split 4 years ago but that was the height of my depression and my unhappiness had nothing to do with him. With the help of 2 therapists, a psychiatrist, and a marriage counselor i learned how to handle my depression and we fixed our marriage. Good luck ladies. If you honestly look at your husband and see redeeming qualities then i urge you to try to fix it.

I'm sorry I didn't mean to sound like you should leave your husband because I have a lot invested in my relationship too and I tried leaving and I can't

I completely understand there's some days I can hardly look at him too he complains about everything night and day I mean the cracks in the sidewalk the cars on the street there too loud I mean everything upsets in but I am so glad to hear you say that you feel like you deserve better that's one thing that I don't everybody says I'm a good mom and I'm such a good person that I deserve better and I deserve better for myself but I don't think so at all I think I'm a terrible person and a pretty bad mom so I'm glad you feel empowered I know what you mean by you feel like everything's so invested in this relationship you have now but could you imagine if you found somebody that loves you how much of your heart would be invested in that relationship

@heather.stolz, I can’t even tell you what’s wrong with us. He doesn’t try and I just am not happy anymore. I don’t know what happened, it’s like I woke up and realized I deserve better with everything I do for him on a daily basis and our family..ever since then I can’t touch or even look at him the same because he is an ass and always will be

I hear you that's where I am to I just turned 30 when I had my first son and as soon as I had him my husband changed I don't know what happened but something in his world just broke and me and the kids do nothing but make him miserable all day

@mommytobabygirl, I want to get out but I can’t. I have kids and too much invested in everything

@heather.stolz, I don’t know what to do. I’m tired of feeling this way all the time and I just cry sometimes for now reason, he doesn’t see how unhappy I am. I feel so alone and I just want someone to hold me and tell me it’s going to be okay

Hi I'm Heather I know you're feeling I feel so alone all the time