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Rant‼ Before planning my baby shower (which I didn’t want but everyone said have it) I asked all my friends from out of…

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Before planning my baby shower (which I didn’t want but everyone said have it) I asked all my friends from out of state will they be there now 10 days before the shower everyone can’t come 🙄. I’m pissed,hurt just wish I would’ve followed my first mind. I HATE PEOPLE.

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dekenyathornton

DekenyaВ ожидании первенца

I wish I could cancel but I will lose 360 for the hall so I guess I don’t have a choice.

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dekenyathornton

DekenyaВ ожидании первенца

@raquely, I totally understand that’s why I’m over it. I’m paying for this by myself I could have used the money on my little girl. 🤦🏽‍♀️ mad at myself.

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dekenyathornton

DekenyaВ ожидании первенца

@worlds.okayest.mom, and that’s how I feel I will never go to Chicago for anything they have.

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worlds.okayest.mom

Crystal MethenyМама двоих (1 год, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

@lulu85_18 seriously. I told my husband whoever did it this year wouldn't be invited to the baby shower.

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lulu85_18

LuluМама сына (7 лет), беременна (16 нед.)

@dekenyathornton, you have the right mindset. Just enjoy your shower and forget those people. I’m sure you will still have a wonderful time. Many blessings to that baby of yours. 😊

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lulu85_18

LuluМама сына (7 лет), беременна (16 нед.)

@worlds.okayest.mom, my “friends” did that to my son when he turned 3. That’s why none of those people are in my life anymore. I can’t stand flaky people.

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dekenyathornton

DekenyaВ ожидании первенца

@keilaa, thank you and you right it will be only family there but oh well I will enjoy.

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dekenyathornton

DekenyaВ ожидании первенца

@brittany_blessing, those was the main ones telling me to have it. But we will be fine with the people that do show up.

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worlds.okayest.mom

Crystal MethenyМама двоих (1 год, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

@dekenyathornton yup 😬 shitty and shady

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dekenyathornton

DekenyaВ ожидании первенца

@worlds.okayest.mom, them be the ones that will talk to you until the day and then flake on you.

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keilaa

Keilaa💋В ожидании первенца

It’s okay girl , majority of the people I’m having are family 🤷🏽‍♀️ maybe about a good hand full of friends.

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melodysmama

Brittany В ожидании первенца

This is my biggest fear. I’ve stressed my ass off over my baby shower and I just have this gut feeling that no one will show up.

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worlds.okayest.mom

Crystal MethenyМама двоих (1 год, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

People did that shit for my son's birthday last year. I purposely held it out of state because everyone swore they could make it. The day of most people stood him up.

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dekenyathornton

DekenyaВ ожидании первенца

@lulu85_18, yes I have family here and I honestly don’t want they gift they can keep it. I’m always driving/flying for everything they do but it’s different when it comes to me. I’m going to make the best of it and enjoy the baby shower.

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lulu85_18

LuluМама сына (7 лет), беременна (16 нед.)

That’s terrible. But since they were planning on coming, their gift is in the mail, right? (If there’s no effort or gift, you see what the answer really was all along.)

Do you still have family coming?

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@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

I really thought I was getting a baby shower and like no one has even thought about giving me one. This is my first baby…

I really thought I was getting a baby shower and like no one has even thought about giving me one. This is my first baby i mean no one has to do anything for me I just at least thought they had plans for me and they don’t. They gave my uncle one because his wife didn’t want one because she already had a kid.And everyone got a baby shower and was giving one .But I guess it’s okay. I’ll do my own baby shower with my next child I just thought family planned a baby shower for you . Lol guess I thought wrong.