Rant‼ Before planning my baby shower (which I didn’t want but everyone said have it) I asked all my…

That’s terrible. But since they were planning on coming, their gift is in the mail, right? (If there’s no effort or gift, you see what the answer really was all along.)

Do you still have family coming?

@lulu85_18, yes I have family here and I honestly don’t want they gift they can keep it. I’m always driving/flying for everything they do but it’s different when it comes to me. I’m going to make the best of it and enjoy the baby shower.

People did that shit for my son's birthday last year. I purposely held it out of state because everyone swore they could make it. The day of most people stood him up.

This is my biggest fear. I’ve stressed my ass off over my baby shower and I just have this gut feeling that no one will show up.

It’s okay girl , majority of the people I’m having are family 🤷🏽‍♀️ maybe about a good hand full of friends.

@worlds.okayest.mom, them be the ones that will talk to you until the day and then flake on you.

@dekenyathornton yup 😬 shitty and shady

@brittany_blessing, those was the main ones telling me to have it. But we will be fine with the people that do show up.

@keilaa, thank you and you right it will be only family there but oh well I will enjoy.

@worlds.okayest.mom, my “friends” did that to my son when he turned 3. That’s why none of those people are in my life anymore. I can’t stand flaky people.

@dekenyathornton, you have the right mindset. Just enjoy your shower and forget those people. I’m sure you will still have a wonderful time. Many blessings to that baby of yours. 😊

@lulu85_18 seriously. I told my husband whoever did it this year wouldn't be invited to the baby shower.

@worlds.okayest.mom, and that’s how I feel I will never go to Chicago for anything they have.

@raquely, I totally understand that’s why I’m over it. I’m paying for this by myself I could have used the money on my little girl. 🤦🏽‍♀️ mad at myself.

I wish I could cancel but I will lose 360 for the hall so I guess I don’t have a choice.