Makes me upset that I invite all these people to my baby shower and majority of them can’t rsvp by the date which is today and now I have to chase after everyone seeing if they are coming. And wouldn’t you know half of them can’t. I invited people that I want to have in my sons life that have said since the beginning are you having a shower I wanna come well where are you now?
I find it pretty hilarious how people who have shown their true colors on social media snake away, delete the posts that outed them and come back on social media like nothing happened. Why do that, you outed yourself, so stay out. We still see you boo boo...
Ordered my baby shower invites last week because I read that they take two weeks to come.....well they'll be here in 3 days. Better really early than late I guess. I got them through vistaprint, 100 invites for 49.20 and that includes 100 envelopes, taxes and shipping. Can't get any better than that for custom invitations! I'm so excited for my shower. Ladies, when are you having your showers and what's the theme?!
Pretty depressed right now making a list of ppl to invite to my baby shower. I dont have anyone to invite. Just family and no friends. This is gonna be embarrassing af.
Hey I'm hoping for picture examples! My 2 sisters and my mom are planning my baby shower. But they want to know how many people I want to invite. How many people did you invite? How many showed? would you leave it the same? Also they want to know if I have any ideas I want included. I have a few but nothing big. Anyone want to share pictures of there baby shower? We're having a girl but it can be a boys shower for examples
I'm grateful for my baby shower today. It was done very beautifully and with lots of thought. My colors were gold and pink and everything was perfect. The only downside of today is that I invited over 40 people and only 10 showed up. My family has spent months of planning and buying things for the shower and spent hundreds and hundreds of dollars. I couldn't believe that barely anyone that I invited showed up. It was upsetting and embarassing. Even my best friend, who said she wouldn't miss it for the world and was even texting with me about it last night, didn't show up. What in the fuck is wrong with people. I understand that things happen and people have lives too, but for 3/4 of my guests to never show because most just didn't really care or whatever is really hurtful and shows what kind of person they truly are. It's even more fucked up that I messaged them on Facebook simply saying, "missed ya today at the baby shower!" and the majority of them have just ignored my message. Don't give me your address for my baby shower invite if you just have no care to show up or even acknowledge me. I now know who not to invite to things anymore. Rant over.
Aylenrose·
Sadly this happens a lot. 😞 I had a bunch of childhood friends saying that they can't wait to see my baby and see him grow up and will be there for me because it takes a village to raise a baby but once he was born no one came around. When we happen to run into them they act like they've been around and say aww its my baby! Blah blah blah and I'm like ummmm what? He doesn't even know you.
Megan Cragle·
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@aylenrose, I see that. And the crazy thing is I’m gonna be the person to family and friends like look you haven’t been around don’t think your a big person in our lives
Aylenrose·
@meggcragle yup having kids makes you see who is really there for you and who isn't. :/
Megan Cragle·
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@aylenrose, I’ve kinda seen that the last couple months already it’s sad
Aylenrose·
@meggcragle it really is especially if you were there for any of your friends that had kids first. I was for my friend when she was a teen mom I came over to her house every day I didn't work and helped with her baby so she could get a break, take a shower etc. But as you and your baby grow and go do mommy and me things you will probably find some mom friends that will get what you are going through.
Megan Cragle·
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@aylenrose, that’s exactly what I did for my friend and I’m not even sure if she is coming bc now she’s to good! I hope I could find mommy friends that truly hold a relationship
Aylenrose·
@meggcragle yeah my friend went to the shower but wasn't around for anything else. :/ its definitely possible a friend I had in high school got pregnant 3 weeks before me and we both got really close while we were pregnant and brought our babies together after their shots.it was great but I feel like the last few months she hasn't really reached out to me. It's always me to her so I feel like I bother her. I'm waiting for her to get ahold of me and she hasn't so far.
Megan Cragle·
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@aylenrose, awh well I’m sorry. I do not chase after people and I feel like that’s what I’m already doing and I’m stoping bc it’s not fair to me.