This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
I posted the day before yesterday about my friend.. & well....... her fiancé came over, AND she came alone 😐 we eat sit around and after awhile my husband takes him to the back & the next thing I know he’s coming in the house with a weird look on his face, asking her if there was something he should know, I instantly gets up just in case someone turns into a maniac....... well long story short he cried & told her how disloyal she is & how disappointed he was.. she’s crying asking me why would I do that.. I’m like 🤷🏽 ♀ it wasn’t right........ Our other friends are saying that he’s giving her a hard time and that he sleeping on the couch, not eating her food and won’t talk to her.. she’s not talking to me (of course) & I now feel like we could have handled it in a different manner ... idk seeing a grown man cry like he did was just heart breaking!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. Deff thankful for my family atm. I will start to do eBay too . I have stuff i can sell... anything to help out alittle help my husband ... whatever i can do.
I need to chat with someone about my partners perving on other girls and talking about random women who we see in public I can’t deal with it aswell as him searching one specific female work colleague on Facebook I’m getting really irritated by his behaviour I’m finding it ridiculously pathetic to the point I’m not wanting to speak to him. He’s literally staring and head turning and then talks to me about them even on the school run one of my sons friends mums he pervs on every day he’s even started parking behind her and every day before i get out of the car to pick my son and our daughter up he talks about this boys mum and then as soon as I get in the car he’s speaking about her he even knows her reg plate number to it’s all getting to weird and to much.
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Most dads don't get the full "omg it's another one of my kids" until they are born. Since baby isn't in their tummy. Maybe it's like outta sight outta mind even more so since he's not there. I'm sure he'll be there once baby is here. Sounds like a good dad
Toni levy·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (23 нед.)
@luceromommy, maybe that’s it. He is a great dad.
MoT·
I'm not going to lie, my husband isn't good at being a dad to the unborn baby. I don't really blame him. Work doesn't give him enough vacation to come to appt or ultrasounds. He has felt the baby kick but I think it is weird for him. Some men just do better at showing up once they arrive. From the second DD was born he showed up for everything. Every midnight feeding, took off when she was admitted to the nicu. He doesn't care what is going on at work if she is in trouble he is going to be there. I'm pregnant with a baby boy this time and he seems to just have trouble knowing what it looks like to be a dad before baby arrives, but once the baby shows up he is the best Dad ever.
Toni levy·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (23 нед.)
@mct, I hope it changes once he sees the baby because I’m wondering if he doesn’t care about this baby because we aren’t together anymore.
MoT·
@iheartyvettee I bet it will be okay. Honestly, if you guys aren't together it probably makes it harder to be like how was your obgyn appt, or can I feel the baby kick? He might just not want to cross a line or make you uncomfortable.
Toni levy·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (23 нед.)
@mct, yeah maybe you’re right. I get that completely. Thank you!