I never did. My ex did it to me and it was forever in the back of my mind. Once the trust was broken, it never came back.

I agree with him that she shouldn't have done it but like u said he should trust her if he forgive her.

@n_favors well, that's definitely not the case here. Otherwise he would trust her and there would be no question

Some people don't believe that's cheating

@avahcruz exactly

I agree, there is not a relationship if there is not trust. If you can’t trust your partner, what’s the point?

but in all honesty that's up to you to decide of you are the one staying

about the lenthgh of never.

@avahcruz I understand that, but he chose to stay with her after she did that, twice. I just think if u choose to stay, u should choose to trust.

@mrsgoodrich1727 I just wish there was some way to convince him that what he's doing is damaging to their relationship. It just keeps her feeling guilty and I can barely talk to her, because he intentionally ties up most of her phone time.

Honestly I wouldn’t. Cheating of any kind is a deal breaker for me. (To me) if you have anything to hide with another woman, we’re no longer together.

@mrsgoodrich1727 agreed

If he has to monitor her, he doesn’t trust her

@mrsgoodrich1727 thanks. With the couple I'm referring to, the guy says he trusts his wife, but he constantly monitors her

My sons dad did this to me. When I was pregnant he was snap chatting girls about sex, and receiving nudes from them. About a year ago, and we agreed to get rid of all social media . I just started getting over it and then found out he was going on it behind my back again. 🙄 So now I’m back to not trusting him. It really depends on the relationship and the whole situation