If your partner emotionally cheated on you, via texting and one or two dates twice, how long would it take you to truly…

My sons dad did this to me. When I was pregnant he was snap chatting girls about sex, and receiving nudes from them. About a year ago, and we agreed to get rid of all social media . I just started getting over it and then found out he was going on it behind my back again. 🙄 So now I’m back to not trusting him. It really depends on the relationship and the whole situation

@mrsgoodrich1727 thanks. With the couple I'm referring to, the guy says he trusts his wife, but he constantly monitors her

If he has to monitor her, he doesn’t trust her

@mrsgoodrich1727 agreed

Honestly I wouldn’t. Cheating of any kind is a deal breaker for me. (To me) if you have anything to hide with another woman, we’re no longer together.

@mrsgoodrich1727 I just wish there was some way to convince him that what he's doing is damaging to their relationship. It just keeps her feeling guilty and I can barely talk to her, because he intentionally ties up most of her phone time.

@avahcruz I understand that, but he chose to stay with her after she did that, twice. I just think if u choose to stay, u should choose to trust.

about the lenthgh of never.

but in all honesty that's up to you to decide of you are the one staying

I agree, there is not a relationship if there is not trust. If you can’t trust your partner, what’s the point?

@avahcruz exactly

Some people don't believe that's cheating

@n_favors well, that's definitely not the case here. Otherwise he would trust her and there would be no question

I agree with him that she shouldn't have done it but like u said he should trust her if he forgive her.

I never did. My ex did it to me and it was forever in the back of my mind. Once the trust was broken, it never came back.