Weird. She told me I had 20 minutes to push her out or she was using forceps or the vacuum and the side effects are internal bleeding and bruising. So it's my choice. I was like what the heck and pushed as beat I could and that hot her out

@chadandtanya14 they never told me and had no idea what forceps were till they used them

@loving-life I agree but I think that was a scare tactic and they have to tell you that because it's a possible side effect

@chadandtanya14 my baby was born with help of a forceps, and he is perfectly fine! It depends on a doctor how professional he or she is

Ok that makes sense. Well I hope everything works out for you

@chadandtanya14 hospitals are my worst fear for personal reasons

Why is that?

@chadandtanya14 hospitals are still the worst place for me to be

Well I know hospitals are scary bit if your at home and something goes wrong or u need help or pain management then the time it takes to get to hospital is a more scary thought. If u need pain management u want it right then and there. The wait for my epidural was about 10 min and I thought I was dying. I projectile threw up all over as well from the pain. It made me not want kids again

@chadandtanya14 if my body reacts to labor pain like other pain its gonna make me really nauseous and weak and i think its dumb that some women think it makes them less of a mom for using pain management but a hospital is the worst possible place for me so hoping to avoid it but at this point looks like its gonna be a hospital

The pain is real that's for sure! I have a massive pain tolerance and wentnin thinking I could do it all natural and boy was I wrong! The pain made me delusional and was thee worst most painful thing I've ever been thru. I pushed for over 3 hours and almost went to c section because no matter how hard i was trying I couldn't get her head out. She was stuck on the pubic bone. They called in an obstetrician and a pediatrician because she wasn't coming and I was in so much pain. They threatened me with forceps and the vacuum which may cause internal bleeding they said. So I had to push her out thru the pain or they were using them. So I pushed like no damn tomorrow. You need to prepare for the fact that you will need to do whatever it takes for that baby and in the end it is all worth it. If you need pain management it doesn't change who you are or say anything negative about your person. You need to do what's best for you to cope and get that baby out!

@tyrellp not sure about that either the reality of giving birth is pretty painful and postpartum bleeding definitely isnt any fun

@tyrellp i dont think that's gonna help but thanks