I feel like me being pregnant is pushing him away. He wants me to put him first but I can't wrap my…

I feel like me being pregnant is pushing him away. He wants me to put him first but I can't wrap my brain arounf putting a man first before kids. He talks me he never wants me to get too comfortable. Dude I'm too old to act like a damn 20 year old eager to please. This is me I'm not saying there isn't any room for improvement but this is me