Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Opinions! I’m pregnant with my ex boyfriends third child it is our second together. Our daughter is 3, we split up a week before I found out I was pregnant. He doesn’t want to fix things. And I’ve been trying to sorta ask him to come home but found out some news that completely broke my heart. I sorta started to talk to someone that doesn’t live in my state but works around my area sometimes.. we spent some time together while he was here and he will be back in 3 weeks.. am I doing something wrong I feel weird I’m pregnant...
Dog rant! We’ve had our large dog for 10 years. For the most part he was an outside dog until a year or so ago. He would go crazy ( bite the door and start bleeding to come in.) I have allergies so I’m not a dog person. We bought a huge kennel this fit him comfortably so he can stay inside for the most part. He did good, that lasted a year until a few months ago he’d go crazy and do the same thing to get out of the cage. My husband bought 2 large sections of carpet for the 2 living rooms. While we are home we is behaved and stays on either carpet. My 16 year old and myself let him out several times a day. With that being said when we are asleep or gone he pisses and craps on my expensive area carpet and sometimes our rugs and tile. I’m going crazy because no matter what I do I smell piss and I’m so grossed out. My 5 year old plays on these floors! My husband and son can live like this but I can’t! I’m going to start working soon and he cannot be home range free . We’ve had him so long and I’m gonna be the bad guy if I surrender him.
I bit the bulletin and bought a few bikini tops. I haven’t worn a bikini top since before having kids but I’m doing it this year. I’ve been working so hard on myself with working out and eating better. I’m also just feeling more comfortable in my own skin. I have some saggy skin and stretch marks but ya know what I’ve seen worse at the beach haha. I’m proud of myself for this!! I’m owning my belly this summer!!! F it ya know?
Nita 👋·
Мама сына (2 года)
It’s very easy to tell someone to walk away but your not in it so you don’t know how hard it is to leave. I’m in love with him , he is a great all around guy and he fucked up real bad but all men are dogs and I’m hurt but I rather stay with the one I have and continue to grow with him then start over with another one. & maybe I’m wrong but I’ll have to find that out on my own but right now I’m trying to figure out how to cope with all of this
Nita 👋·
Мама сына (2 года)
@mimimommyof2, we have similar situations I’ll message you tomorrow
Christal🎃⛄·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)
I'm sorry your going through this hun and I completely understand that he is your best friend and stuff but how do you know that he will stop it.. Same thing happen with me and my hubby but I had to put my foot down and leave him for a bit untill he realized he needed to grow up and be a man and a father and to realize what he had untill he messed up.. He realized it before it was to late... Some guys will change some won't not gonna sugar coat it but You have to do what's best for you and if you guys need a little break for him to realize that he needs to grow up and for him to see how much you love him then take it. He needs to see how much pain he is causing you and how much heartache and how bad its hurting you ... That's my advice about what happen to me and what I think you should do.. But still be strong hun and stand your ground do not let him work around it.. I hope you guys figure this out 💗💙💚
Mimi·
Мама дочки (2 года)
I have no evidence that it’s beyond phone conversations tbh I get angry I do but I get over like an idiot I can’t let her win because she wants to ruin my family keep hers and my man no but Im waiting to see the bitch cus she knows of my existence I mean she owes me no respect but 🤷🏻♀️
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i definitely understand which is why i can say from experience I am a better woman for leaving then the woman I was when i thought it was better to stay. I am 100% changed. i was very unhappy looking back
Nita 👋·
Мама сына (2 года)
@mimimommyof2, omg how do you deal with that?
Nita 👋·
Мама сына (2 года)
@beemommyof3, thanks for your advice and let me be very clear I know my worth and I know I don’t deserve it but I can’t see myself with anyone else.. it’s crazy and I know some won’t understand.
Mimi·
Мама дочки (2 года)
My husband has been talking to the same female for the length of our relationship weird Shit is she has a man and she has also had kids with him during this time 🤨 so idk what joist they get from each other it’s weird
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He isnt going to. He did it once and it will happen again. Its not like he did it once and it is over. He lied and said it was over and you dug up the truth. That aint honesty. He got caught. He would have continued had you not found out. Liars cant be trusted. Save yourself the heart ache
Nita 👋·
Мама сына (2 года)
@beemommyof3, that’s the thing I’ve put so much time in to this relationship it’s fucked up because he is my best friend we’ve grown up together basically and I don’t want to leave I just want him to get his shit together
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You dont need a therapist, you need to get you a real man and leave him to play games with someone else.
Cassie Hammond 💍💓👨👨👦·
Мама сына (5 лет)
Message me!