I wish her the best of luck I hope she finds her happiness everyone deserves to be happy

@mommysbabies, yeah I think so

Yeah doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship for her or baby it’s best just to be parents then romantically involved it’s sounds a lot like mental abuse

@mommysbabies, yeah I believe so. I’ve known her since we were little, she use to be so outgoing and always hanging out with friends, he doesn’t let her go anywhere she has no license, and she can’t have guy friends. But yet he talks to his ex wife.

Oh yeah definitely can make you feel like you don’t deserve happiness which is another reason she could be staying

@mommysbabies, I told her, and she agreed that baby can tell because she said they went bowling tonight and she was in a good mood for once actually having a good time and the baby was in a great mood and didn’t fuss at all even when he got sleepy, I wonder if her depression and anxiety does have a toll on this?

Honestly counseling may be a good decision for her it will be hard but baby can feel she is unhappy she has some things she needs to work out with in herself if he has belittled her then she is probably lacking in the confidence department which is what she really needs to make that final decision

@mommysbabies, I completely agree, she told me she’s been contemplating leaving him anyways cause he doesn’t help do anything and he belittles her everyday, I told her if she wants to make it work then they will figure out a way to make things right but if she doesn’t then she has every right to leave. She said it’s hard to leave and that she’s tried several times but just ends up in her sons room crying packing things up just to unpack them later on that night, she said she feels unhappy and just lost and that she never would have thought he’d do this

It’s kinda hard to work though something like that because they both probably feel betrayed her for him going elsewhere and cross dressing and him for not feeling like she can accept him for who he is if they want it to work they will have to work on forgiving and accepting each other but telling him to stop being who he feels he is will not be a good way to start a marriage because it probably won’t last counseling may be in their best interest even if they decide to just co parent because that’s quite a lot to work through without any help

@mommysbabies, yeah that’s true, I didn’t look at it like that. She says they argue quite a bit and she thought it was cause of her depression and anxiety so she got on medication for it, and then it stopped for a while but now it’s right back up again,

@jennyandjamey, maybe it’s because he knows he doesn’t have her support so he is looking for it elsewhere and is afraid to leave because they have a child together and no one wants to be the one to break the family up it causes a lot of guilt doesn’t mean what he is doing is right either it’s hard to leave and it’s hard to stay if that makes any sense

Omg don't do it how in the world is he going to get at u when ur the one holding it all together .your not the one who did anything wrong ! but u will marry BIM even if every say not to ! But keep in mind this is ur baby do u really want ur baby to be like him or you ? What men forget about women is once u have ur sweet baby is you hold all the power in ur hands so don't be week because your not

@mommysbabies, that’s what I said, I don’t get why he’s talking to other women though on an app, they live together, you’d think if he wasn’t happy with her why would he keep the relationship going?

@jennyandjamey, then it maybe time to end the romantic relationship and just have a co parent relationship if she isn’t ok with his life choices then no matter what the relationship is over you have to support each other 100% in a relationship she will only be miserable if she stays if she is unhappy about him doing it

@mommysbabies, I agree, she has said she’s tried to talk to him about it before and he doesn’t do it around her, but the fact he does it still bothers her,

I think she needs to reevaluate the relationship if he wants to be a transgender or dress in drag and whether or not she wants to be in that kind of relationship and just be civil they still share a child it doesn’t need to be an argument just be as supportive as possible an argument isn’t going to do anyone any good if she makes it into an argument then there is a possibility she may end up dealing with a situation like the Kardashian Jenner clan and be married for 15 years before coming clean and I think that would be harder and messier