My step kids live with me full Time....the oldest doesn't like me because he doesn't like rules or structure. He has…

I have one of those here but the his dad takes up for him and so my rules don’t matter

I feel like my bf would know what to do I just can't think of it. He loves dealing with troubled kids of all sorts. He used to deal with them in Florida when he was with the fire department and was running their explorer program.

@lydia09876 sheesh...I couldn't live like that...you not about to attack me and not have consequence

@brandyswanson51 everybody says they can help, then they try and they're like oh I give up lol....

@newlywedmama21 has anyone tried just talking to him about why he is acting like that. I understand he is used to mom not doing anything but it seems like he goes after you personally. Maybe it's a little bit of jealousy or hurt and it's a lash out? Just speculating though

Have you tried taking him to a psychologist?

At the end you've tried and did the best you can do if he feel going back to his mother is best so be it because when they all grow up he will see all you wanted to do was love him and guide him the right way

Let his lil bad ass go I don't see how you deal with him all that time I'm just saying

@lulu85_18 he's been thru several

@tiff.momma.love that's where I'm at...

@youngcarla25 girl. The struggle is real

@newlywedmama21 that's not your problem boo you got your own kids & it's sad to say but gotta learn before he end up somewhere he ain't gone want to be but his lil ass need a scare to wake him up from doing bad stuff how old is he

@newlywedmama21 the part what made me mad was when he almost brunt your house on fire and peed on your toothbrush girl I'm heated if u not

@youngcarla25 heated isn't the word. I called the cops and I got real petty. I do everything for you so if that's how u wanna treat me then don't ask me for shit else!!! And I'm sticking to it. A child will not run my life....so u can be without, since u hate me so much. I won't life another damn finger and u don't have to deal with me. Sit and be miserable til ur daddy gets home. I'm done. 6 years of pure BS

@youngcarla25 10

@newlywedmama21 yeah I hear that he have alot of nerve

@newlywedmama21 to damn old

@brandyswanson51 oh it's all of that. He'd spoiled and doesn't like to share. He just doesn't like rules and he takes advantage of having two homes. He can lie and manipulate to bounce back and forth

@newlywedmama21 yeah that needs to be stopped.

@brandyswanson51 his mom and dad created a monster. Me and dad have tried everything to fix it.... so now his mom is just gonna have to get him and be a parent. I can no longer sacrifice my sanity, health or other children. He just doesn't care. Case closed.