my mom decided shes not throwing me a baby shower cause its too much work and she doesn’t have…

my mom decided shes not throwing me a baby shower cause its too much work and she doesn’t have time...but she’s known im pregnant for like 4months now. ..and my friend is supposed to throw me one but she doesn’t really have the time either. it’s supposed to be on feb24 but nothing is even reserved or anything. reaaally just want to say F a baby shower all together. so frustrated. i shouldn’t have to basically plan my own.