Mom.life
Kristy
newmamabear
Kristy·Мама дочки (6 лет)
Hi mamas! - I will likely have to wait at least 3 more months to find out the gender of my baby but I can't help but wonder if I am the only woman desperately hoping it's a little girl ...  am I bad to be hoping for this SO badly ? I know everyone says they would be happy with either gender but ... I want a mini-me, always have. I will love my baby no matter the gender but am I alone here? Are there any moms that experienced this and had a baby boy? Maybe you can help me see things in a better light... Please try not to judge my honesty about wanting a girl- I feel guilty enough being so bias... Lol
29.01.2018
6

Лучший комментарий

Комментарии

newmamabear
Kristy·Мама дочки (6 лет)
@newmama.-. I feel the same way! I find out tomorrow 👶🙊
15.04.2018 Нравится Ответить
newmama.-.
Dreaming of having a baby girl, I have 6 younger siblings and found the girls so much easier to help with and now that I'm having my own I'd honestly prefer a girl but love my baby either way
15.04.2018 Нравится Ответить
newmamabear
Kristy·Мама дочки (6 лет)
@eze.love Haha aww let me know when you find out !
30.01.2018 Нравится Ответить
eze.love
fabi·Мама двоих (7 лет, 8 лет)
I really want a girl.. im dreaming of going shopping for little girl clothes and all.. but if i have a boy the only thing i'll be disapointed about is not having to shop for anything since i still have all of my son's clothes..
30.01.2018 Нравится Ответить
newmamabear
Kristy·Мама дочки (6 лет)
Thanks moms ! I feel SO much better... And more prepared to handle the news when I find out. Xo!
29.01.2018 Нравится Ответить
rshu
Renata s·Мама дочки (8 лет)
Don't feel bad. I was told about 12 weeks I might be having a boy. Was happy of course. Then anatomy scan came along and it was a little girl. I was super excited because like you I wanted a mini me haha don't worry about gender disappointment it happens
29.01.2018 Нравится Ответить
babymomma2018
Hannah Truhlar ·Мама сына (7 лет)
Girl I felt the exact same way....i wanted a mini me! We picked a name, color scheme, theme and everything for a Girl! It felt so right and we were so excited (my bf wanted a girl also). At 13 weeks we found out I'm having a boy....i cried...several times...and it didnt help that I could tell my bf was disappointed also. I felt ashamed to be so disappointed and everyone was telling me I was a horrible person for feeling depressed and distant from the baby growing inside of me. I didn't feel the bond with the baby anymore. Not that I didn't love him...i just didn't know how to feel. Gender disappoint is a real thing and effects alot of women. Most the time when mommas try to reach out bc of it they get slammed with judgment. "Just be grateful you have a healthy baby" was what I got anytime I talked about it. Some people actually accused me of being abusive and neglectful of my child just bc I was struggling at that exact moment!!! I love my son and the closer he is to coming, the more excited I get! Don't feel guilty! You'll be a great, loving, caring mother no matter the gender.
29.01.2018 Нравится Ответить
brynsmommie
Amber·Мама двоих (8 лет, 12 лет)
I wanted a boy always....when I found out I was pregnant with a girl (first baby) I was heartbroken....wanted that boy so bad but I found a good way to cheer myself up was to go or and find some cute girl clothes and that got me on board a bit more with the idea. When I was pregnant for the second time....I didn’t care if it was a girl or a boy. I loved having a girl so much that I would’ve done it all over again, I ended up with a boy the second time and I’m thrilled about my family. My husband and mom were shocked at my reaction when I found out my first was a girl....but you can’t help how you feel 😘
29.01.2018 Нравится Ответить
newmamabear
Kristy·Мама дочки (6 лет)
@katyejordyn thanks for your honesty !!! :) i dont feel so alone now haha and congrats she's so cute!
29.01.2018 Нравится Ответить
amomandherbug
KJ ·Мама дочки (7 лет)
So we were told at an early ultrasound that we were having a little boy. We were both incredibly excited and obviously we loved him right away. BUT come to find out at our anatomy scan, we were ACTUALLY having a baby girl. The immediate and overwhelming joy I felt was crazy. I never knew how badly I truly wanted a girl until then. Of course I would have loved my boy either way, but it was clear which one I wanted more. Don’t feel guilty, it’s normal to lean toward one gender more than the other. You will love them no matter what anyway ☺️
29.01.2018 Нравится Ответить
Читайте также