Okay so I know other moms have a man (besides the father) in their child(ren)s life. My deal with…
Okay so I know other moms have a man (besides the father) in their child(ren)s life. My deal with that is when do you get over him trying to be a 3rd parent? My bf got onto my son a few times and it bugged me SO much I eventually said something to him (I might have freaked completely out) and he understood but I felt like he was completely over stepping with MY baby boy.. he treats Kaiesyn as his own but I just can’t let him get onto my son. I feel as though it is MY place as his mother. Am I in the right or wrong?
P.s we have only been together for a couple months..
💎Jade💎·
Ok I think maybe if your "serious" with him its one thing, i think he should learn to be a parent if thats the shoes your going to give him to fill. But if it has been only a couple months then I think maybe thats over stepping some boundaries.
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He should not discipline the child period. It is not his place. You and the child's father need to come up with those terms. Its nice he is stepping up but that is one thing he can not do especially as just a boyfriend and especially one you have only been with a few months. Out of bounds
Rachel Adams·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
If he lives with you that means you trust him enough to essentially be the father figure in your home. If he doesn't, then he shouldn't necessarily discipline but support you in your parenting.
Callie 💜·
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, he treats my son like his own and he has been there since he wad 7 months old.. Even now sometimes I get a little offensive when he says my son isnt listening to him, or that ny son shouldn't need to take a toy with him when he goes to his dads .. Its silly things but it offends me. :/
Danyehl Bailey·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (20 нед.)
@callie_, I’m the same way! I CAN NOT STAND when he tries telling my son things like “you don’t need to take your blanket in the store” like “excuse me!? That’s his security and he will take it where he wants, thank you👌🏼” I think the worse is when he tries to say something about my sons dad, or something about my son and his dad.. I will defend him until I die and as for my son, oh no.. I don’t like when anyone says anything to him