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What would you do if your husband worked with someone who is very entrust worthy and unreliable. They are partners so to…

What would you do if your husband worked with someone who is very entrust worthy and unreliable. They are partners so to say and do there own work. (Construction type of stuff) and he doesmt get paid when his supposed to on most days and its just very stressful. Not to mention my husband does most of the work and his partner shows up late and ect. Every day its a bad day for him. And so he comes home not in best mood every single day. And we never see each other on weekends I don't think this job is worth not seeing his family and the stress..... I have hinted it to him. But its very touchy subject because its also a long time friend of his. He knows the family. He grew up with them all. But my SO I think neexs to be looking out for HIS family. Its putting us in a bad place and not being able to see each other much and never know when and much income is coming in. Because its unreliable. He says one thing but you can never really trust it. And always is late even tho we do end up getting paid for the jobs. Its always late. But the bills have cut off times. Can't always be late on the bills or things are going to be turned off. Because we live pay check to pay check. Literally ever since my SO lost his regular job in the summer. But what would you do..... Be use this just isn't working out. He needs to get a more reliable job. Or handle the jobs his doing better so that they are reliable. Like right now his partner didn't even get out of bed all day. My SO has been sitting in his car (that broke down there last week which is why he didn't drive home yet) since 7 am. And he can't leave till his mom picks him up at 6.. Its ridiculous. I think its so very inconsiderate. If he was not going to be up today my SO shouldn't have even showed up. He has a family of his own. And a new baby. Its so wrong and I don't know how to express that this is not ok and that he should so something about it or get a different job. Am I wrong for saying that?

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mommysbabies

Ashley

Мама троих детей

I feel ya I was working three jobs because we were in this same position it’s very hard he finally got a new job and it’s so much better

nicolem10021

Amanda

Мама сына (8 лет)

@mommysbabies in trying to find something but i think it might start something once I tell him because it will offend him like he isn't doing I good enough job. His been single for so long before we got together. Even tho we have been together for a little over 2 years now. Sometimes I think he doesn't get he needs to put family first. Not what he wamts. Yes somehow we always make it every month. But its stressful till the very last day. And its just not worth it. Then he trays to blame me because of how I do the bills. I am just hoping he gets its together and looks for something else

mommysbabies

Ashley

Мама троих детей

My husband works for tyson/hilshire they are always hiring

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