Last night my boyfriend got mad at my son and afterwords he said he doesn’t know if he can do this anymore.... I was like this as in being a boyfriend and father? So he sat down and said he had to think about it because he’s been unhappy for awhile. He’s tired of us all being around him all the time. Mind you I work overnights Friday and Saturdays, and he works all day during the week. Like wtf?? How about I need a break! I do everything . I shop, I clean, I take care of the kids myself. When he has off he plays video games and watches tv. When I have off I’m running around everywhere,cleaning, cooking everything. At the end of everything he said he wasn’t really unhappy he just wants space sometimes and when he plays his video games he wants me and the kids to go upstairs 🙄🙄 idk what to think...
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@alyssa_hoffmaster, then he’s got to suck it up. He created those kids, he has to help with them, if not psychically then he can do it financially. 🤷♀️ you shouldn’t hold back for his actions and words. He doesn’t deserve you guys.
@boymom_,ya I was very upset but I also saw it coming with how he hasn’t wanted anything up do with us
@alyssa_hoffmaster well if he enjoys it that much then he doesn't deserve you guys there anyway. It should make him realize that he wants to keep you but maybe that's what you need to do so that you guys can figure out where you stand 😕 if I was in your shoes what he told would have completely broke my heart and I probably would have had nothing to say and just walked away
I'd tell him good luck replacing me! And leave for a few days n let him get a taste of what he's asking for
@littleonemorning, my boyfriend said years ago that if we ever broke up and I made him pay child support then he would not be civil towards me
Thats selfish of him. Just remember if he “can’t do it anymore” there is a lovely thing called child support he’d still have to help with. 🙄 he clearly has some growing up to do. If you could, take the kids and yourself away for a little vacation and just ignore him.
@alyssa_hoffmaster, well after 12 years and 4 kids my husband and I are getting divorced. I'm terrified to be a single mom, but I know I can do it.... I know you can too!!! You have a whole support system of other mommas on here that will talk with you through the hard times!
@beautifulmomof4, I ranted to him and told him everything that’s been stressing me out and that I need help from him and we are a family and that’s what family is but he never said a word. Personally he probably doesn’t care. And last night when he said he doesn’t know if he can do it anymore I felt a bit relieved but at the same time I don’t want to need everything. Idk it’s been like this for a long time but progressively getting worse
@alyssa_hoffmaster, then tell him to grow up. That if he didn't want kids he shouldn't have done the dirty work. I told my husband that on Thanksgiving. When he told me we were 2 much for him.
@lex105, ya he is pretty selfish.... I told him I just want attention once in awhile. I told him I want to snuggle and feel loved sometimes. Not all the time just sometimes and he said he’s not that type of person and I know it. Which I do know but he never is romantic, or shows me that he loves me or says I love you first or anything. He acts annoyed every time I talk to him while he is watching tv or on his phone which is literally all he ever does 😩
He sounds like a child!!!! Tell him to stop being a manchild and enter adult world!!! Men are so stupid!!
@littleonemorning, ya I’ve just been thinking really hard about what I want to do