I have a childhood friend that i recently found on fb a few months ago. She met my mom before my mom passed when I was 10 and my grandma used to take care of her too. I hadn’t seen her in about 15 years and she popped up at my grandma’s viewing. I was in front of my grandma so heartbroken and a complete mess when she came up to me. I gave her a hug and told her ‘Thank you so much for coming’ as I was telling everyone who went. The next day she wrote to me saying, “I thought you were going to be more happy and excited to see me you made me upset because I drove 4 hours to be there”. I replied to her apologizing but I said I’d wish we would’ve saw each other in a different situation... but really... what reaction did she expect from me? I’m looking at the person who raised me and gave her life for me for the last time and she wants me to be extra happy and excited to see her? Who do you guys think is wrong here?