My single mothers out here! Would you date a man without children or with children?

@goodbyelullaby right

@grndyns I was mad but at least I got to see who he really was

@sspeers74 agreed!🤗

I said I wouldn't date a guy who had a child or children and then I married my husband.

He has a daughter the same age as J and we see her every other weekend when bm act right.

It's not as bad as I had envisioned it to be. Honestly, its not bad at all. They are five months apart so that makes some things easier and they get along great for the most part.

I've learned to be open minded from my experience with my hubby and besides, I absolutely love big families.

Be firm in what you believe in but don't close yourself to new ideas.

Different is uncomfortable at first.

@goodbyelullaby me to! Girl I'm sorry about that . How did you feel when he just disappeared

I dated a man who had 2 kids but he ditched me and is now dating a woman with no kids. I figure he wanted a woman without kids because she is free all the time. I would definitely rather date a man with kids though

@grndyns, yesssss

@chanelmior right me to !!

@claudia0786 that's beautiful!!

I personally rather date a man w no kids cuz I already did the step mom role for a few years and it took me no where . My so had no kids and he was amazing w my first and now that he’s a dad he’s amazing

@madasyncs that's Beautiful girl!! I'm so happy for you!!

@grndyns, right i had to let that toxic go we coparent but Relationship wise it’s dead.. and his current partner knows he messing his first bm but she don’t care🤦🏾‍♀️

That’s why when i try to talk to someone with kids and i feel like they still messing with they bm. I rather just save the drama

@chanelmior what!! Oh no !! I don't like that at all

@amouryaya09 right !! I understand where you coming from

I dated a man with kids i end up having a child with him but he kept on messing with his first bm.. he is engaged now with someone else and still messing with his first bm🤦🏾‍♀️

I just moved across the country with my 6 month old son, not intending to find a relationship. I ended up finding a wonderful man who had also just moved here, with a 6 year old. I am loving it! He's a great addition to our family, and so is his son. He treats my son like his own.

@grndyns, exactly or she still has feelings! She would have to be married and moved on for me to consider it haha

@amouryaya09 girl that is so true!! Especially if the child mother is still a little immature it's going to be drama . I'm not a fan of drama either

For me it depends. I dated a guy for 3 years and when I met him his daughter just turned one. It was a lot of drama with her mom. Now that I have a child I would date someone who already has one but it would depend on the relationship with the mother.