love when my bf says he’s gonna come over & spend time w/ me & his son & he doesn’t. 🙃 i’m at my breaking point 😭

@kartersmommyy, I hope so. Have a great time if you do!! Soak it up. ❤️

@morganmommy79, i think i’m seeing him tomorrow for Karter’s dr appointment.. he has the day off so we’ll see 😩

@kartersmommyy, anyone can make time for their priorities. By the time he does that with you the baby will be grown. He's missing everything to hopefully make it better later. What about now? 😔

yesss i breastfed Karter the first day & there were like 5 diff people touching my boobs trying to show me how to bf lol! Hopefully he takes the boob, that would make things so much easier! & i hope you produce more milk. Have you tried foods and stuff that’s supposed to increase the amount? I never got a chance to try it but i think it would be cool to see if it helps milk production at all

@kartersmommyy it's not like I can even get that much sleep, cause I still have to pump every 2-3 hours. I wish be would just take the boob, but he's stubborn! He did so good the first few days, latching and everything, but now that I'm actually producing milk, he just screams! Hopefully the lactation lady can help, but ugh pulling my boob out for another stranger.. I've never had do many people touch my boobs and pinch my nipples! Lol I'm not even producing enough milk, I have to supplement with formula anyway. :/ I just want enough! Lol sorry that was long. (and so many people touched my hooha... Glad that's over. Lol)

@halifax6, same 😂 he has a clean diaper, full belly, he is OUT. but i’m just not tired ugh

@kartersmommyy it's been 24 hours and it feels like an eternity already! Lol he's asleep I should be napping.

@halifax6, oh girl tell me about it 😩 lol!

@kartersmommyy I believe you! It just seems impossible! Lol

@halifax6, thank you so much 💙 so are you! we got this :) but idk, he stirs or poops so as i lay him back down lol as the days and nights go in it’ll get easier & we won’t wanna rip our hair out as much lol

@kartersmommyy I plan on lots of day naps. I seriously am so proud of you for doing everything! I have help and I nearly lost it last night, night one! Why is it that he stirrs AS soon as I start doing something! You are amazing! In case you didn't know!

@halifax6, for real! lol i never knew how hard this all was 😩 hopefully they both start sleeping through the night though once they get a little bigger and don’t have their nights & days mixed up. Until then i’m gonna be napping on and off all day every day 😂

@kartersmommyy I agree! During the day he sleeps for 4 hrs! Night it was 2! Hopefully it was just because it's all new! Lol it is so scary. This is so much work. Lol he's lucky he's adorable. Lol I wish we lived close so we could help each other out! Lol

@halifax6, some nights are better than others. it’s weird it’s like night time just gives me sooo much anxiety, whereas during the day things seem so easy!

@morganmommy79, he says he does but he says that’s why he’s working all the time so we can have that soon. but it’s just like he doesn’t work 24/7, he can at least come see us before or after work. ugh

I'm really sorry. I've done one night and I can't even begin to imagine how you've been doing it for two weeks! ! You are awesome! First night was rough to say the least. Lol :]

Doesn't he want to see his child more? Or you?? He needs to make an effort for his family and not just his son.

@morganmommy79, maybe like once a week

@kartersmommyy, do you ever get to see him?

@kartersmommyy 😩😩

@morganmommy79, me either 😩

@momofboth, he has to work 😒

Idk how you do it. 😔

😒😒😒. Smh what's his excuse?