‼️For my Spanish speaking mommies help ‼️
Situation- My son was eating pizza & my mil brought her mom over from Puerto Rico because she’s in a really bad condition & my son went to go give her a piece of crust & she went “ el puta madre “ & i knew what she meant but i had to double check to make sure. I asked my bf but my bil & sil were there too & said that she shouldn’t of said that because it was to my son not me. & we went to go tell my mil that she said that & she came snapping at all of us saying she meant it in a good way. & that mostly all the Spanish swearing words can mean something good. Now please tell me if she meant it in a good or bad way? Because everyone but my mil is saying she meant it in a bad way... & i know alot of Spanish but apparently to her i don’t understand. 🤷♀️🤦🏽♀️😣
according to my SO who is also puerto Rican he said that in so many words she was not pleased with your son bringing her the crust then asked me why i asked lol so i explained and even he said she could have said something else
Definitely is bad to me. She shouldn’t have said it. I don’t know how it would be used in a nice way.
I think u maybe be looking into it to much, Spanish can mean so many different things in different ways, older people don’t know better .. don’t let it get to you, if she continues then I would definitely say something on how she is addressing it ... good luck momma !
@amandabl16, honestly keep your son away from her as much as possible, he’s so defenseless 😭 next time girl spaz on her ass!! I guess until than drop it.. do you live with your in laws?
@tiffanyf, exactly! Im pissed & my bf snapped on her too but she just tells him to shut up because he doesn’t know what he’s talking about either apparently 🤷♀️🙄
I don’t speak Spanish but grew up around it and my man is Hispanic , I wouldn’t take that lightly at all girl .. can’t see where that could be used towards a child in a “good way”
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